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Been a while since I was here last. Lot of stuff happened on other fronts, and poly wasn't much on my mind in the sense of anything to discuss. Been chatting with a few men on and off. Had a crazy hormonal episode with a friend I wasn't even attracted to. No real dating or relationships as...

Don't recall if I posted here about it, but I tried finding someone on Tinder and it went pretty poorly. I found a few interesting people, but there was no spark and eventually I just got irritated and bored and etc and deleted my account. Now I've signed up for OKC. The endless questions they...

Belgian researchers have found that WPA2 encrypted WiFi can be compromised by a hacker within the proximity of the WiFi allowing WPA2 encrypted data not secured by further encryption to be compromised...

Communication has been an ongoing problem in our relationship. We have struggled with it, worked on it, it has got better, but it remains far from perfect. I talk too much, he doesn't talk enough. One major problem in our relationship has been what I used to see as highly exaggerated and...

Was reflecting on what went down between Spexy and me when he had an affair and discovered some specific things that helped us recover from it. Thought that it may be useful to others in trouble, though by no means it is a proper list and is based on what we went through and did only and all...

On the other thread by Remnant, I was wondering what I'd do if I ever got swept away in NRE and hurt my partner badly to the point of dismissing their worth in my life. If I was in OP's place and Spexy agreed to stay with me and consider adapting to my wishes in time after fucking up so...

Spexy and I have been in an LDR for two years now, progressively getting more and more serious. The LDR is seriously getting on my nerves now. It was easier to be single than to have a partner for a couple of days a month and those days too can be disrupted by meeting other people or the son...

I noticed here that most people who identify as poly seem to be in multiple relationships already or seeking them. On the other hand, I am in one relationship (which I hadn't seeked) and not seeking any. I don't imagine seeking in the future too, though it is tempting to add "at this point"...

Discovered something interesting about myself. I get these occasional fits of wishing for a partner I could spend more time with. These are passing whims that aren't really strong enough for me to overcome my domestic limitations (dependents - always at home) or aversion for casual socializing...

Background: I am in an LDR with Spexy for the last two years. We are committed to each other, but live in different cities out of necessity for now. He comes to my place for a week each month or so. A few months ago, Spexy cheated (not poly) on me with another woman, and the situation rapidly...

So I'm in a relationship with Spexy. We've had some rough patches recently that still throw the occasional aftershock. He had acted very badly with me and has severe difficulty recognizing and articulating emotions or understanding the potential emotional impact of his actions and he genuinely...

I'm a 39 year old Indian woman with a disabled child with a husband I am now separated from. In love with Spexy, 33 in another city in India. We are not exactly polyamorous, though we are agreed that we want to walk together for life, not own each other, including what we do with someone else...

Been in a relationship with a guy for a couple of years. We'd left it open as long as we are committed to making us work. We live in separate cities. He mostly visits me and we are quite happy with the relationship. Recently he has met someone and entered into a relationship with her. I sort of...