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Just wanted to hop in and clarify that, in no way, was this decision made by my husband. This was a decision we came to mutually via countless discussions and experiences together. At the time of the original post, we separated for all of two days before we struggled to come to the realization...

Thank you for your kind words. My BPD journey started shortly after my husband and I got together and he has been on the mental health journey with me our entire relationship. I didn’t notice my attachments until recently, when I discovered different terminology to categorize them. Mostly my...

I think it best that you leave this thread and move onto something else. You’re being incredibly judgmental when you don’t know the first thing about me, my feelings, my life, and my relationships. You’re making assumptions about my character based on a few paragraphs that are barely glimpses...

We do actually have an appointment tomorrow with a couples therapist that is lifestyle friendly. We are honestly not sure what type of clarity they might provide. However, we have discussed mono/poly relationships in great detail, and I was hoping that it was something we could try and see if it...

I don’t really know where to start. There is so much guilt, shame, regret, and heartbreak. Last night, after 9 years together (6 married), my husband and I decided to separate. This is largely due to the fact that I believe I am poly, and after many discussions, he has come to the conclusion...