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Galagirl, Thank you so much for continuing to ask questions that I should consider, and for shining light on how hard I can be on myself. Undoing that stress will certainly allow for more enjoyment in the process of finding a new normal. Everyone else that weighed in, thank you! Everyone's...

Galagirl: Absolutely all of this resonates. You're right, I really didn't need to hear as much as I did about Dude and how much his relationship was evolving. Although, I knew on a certain level anyway because of how energetically connected he and I are. We definitely recognized that it's...

Vicki82: At the time I didn't consider it as a personal need that had to be fulfilled, but moving forward that is a really good way to frame things when defining rules or boundaries, thank you!

I really appreciate everyone taking the time to weigh in, thank you! breathemusic & galagirl: i appreciate you breaking down the difference between boundary and rule; even though I've read several articles I couldn't wrap my head around the difference. I also appreciate the questions that I...

Hi! My husband, Dude, of 16 years and I recently began the journey into polyamory with him starting to date a mono at the end of October. We are both interested in relationships outside of our union, but haven't yet found any matches for myself. Dude's paramour, Lady, decided in the last week...