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  1. M

    space and time

    Thanks, I am grateful for all your comments! Yes, we discussed that. I loooked at an apartment about a year ago with the intention to move out completely. That apartment would have been big enoughfor me and the kids, which would have meant they'd have to move every week. He didn't like that...
  2. M

    Why is it harder?

    How many kids do you have and how old are they? And how on earth can you be a full-time stay at home dad and a full-time student at the same time?! Do you have a clone? I think, independently of dating someone, you should get time for yourself. Can't your wife have some regular evenings with...
  3. M

    space and time

    Thank you all for your kind and helpful replies!! lovefromgirl: You definitely have a point and I often feel this is the only thing to do. I'll actually check out an apartment tomorrow which happens to be for rent close to my home and which I could share with a friend's friend to save some...
  4. M

    space and time

    Well he said he would mind, and I believe him. I would probably also mind but he's far from bringing someone. It was me who started talking about breaking up. Somehow he had wanted to carry on our relationship... So there is a bias in this whole situation. I could never relax when my SO is...
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    space and time

    Thanks for your response. I know the circumstances are not what people advise. But that's life, I'll have to deal with the way things developed. We actually define the relationship as broken but simply can't afford to but a second home. Renting is almost impossible in this town. We live in a...
  6. M

    space and time

    Hi there, I'm not sure whether I'm doing the real poly thing (whatever that would be) but I have a question that is related. I am married with three kids, living with my husband. We get along quite well as long as I have the freedom to see others (which is rather new to us and still makes me...
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