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  1. shovelandhoe

    Is my relationship at an impasse?

    Thanks for the reply FallenAngelina. By "sharing me energetically" I mean that my partner feels there is a lingering energy after my time with someone that she is particularly sensitive to. And after I have a date with someone else she doesn't feel comfortable being near me for a day or so...
  2. shovelandhoe

    Is my relationship at an impasse?

    Thanks for the quick and succinct reply Galagirl. When you break it down in the eloquent way you did, it's pretty obvious to me that it's not working. I've known that for a bit, but was really hopeful that with our outstanding communication, we could work through it. But perhaps it's just...
  3. shovelandhoe

    Is my relationship at an impasse?

    Cuz I can't tell anymore. And whoa- advanced apologies for the long post. Queer poly transman Partnered for 2 years with a cis woman. Her vision of poly for herself is having me as a primary partner, then seriously dating (regular dates, love, emotional connection) one or two other people...
  4. shovelandhoe

    Open Relationships and Early Sobriety

    wow- thank you all for your honest and supportive advice. while i would like to ask my partner to slow down, like Tinwen suggested, for my own comfort, i find that i resonate more with FallenAngelinas advice. my recovery is MINE to deal with and, though it feels a little harsh to hear in...
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    Open Relationships and Early Sobriety

    backstory- i quit drinking 20 months ago (after drinking alcoholically for 17 years) and started dating someone just over a year ago. Two months ago I qui t smoking cigarettes and weed and stopped taking pills, making me fully sober for the first time in my adult life. My partner and i are in...
  6. shovelandhoe

    New Member

    Hey there- my name's oliver. I'm a 34 year old transguy living in rural tennessee. I medically transitioned 8 years ago. I'm queer. I'm in an open relationship. I'm newly sober. And as life and its issues arise I'm seeking support and community online. Thanks for having me.
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