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That’s a good idea on how to explain to them. I don’t know who is and isn’t respecting my boundaries right now. Turns out a lot of people have been talking about me being a hoe and a cheating whore.

I have blocked him, changed my passwords again just in case, stopped talking to him and have no intention of being around him. I even talked to my mom so she knew what was going on and wouldn’t be a way for him to get in contact with me. He doesn’t have custody of his kid and she’s legal here...

This feels so profound but no one else seems to understand. No one else seems to get the Gravity. Maybe because I’m not good at expressing myself and am awful at voicing things. For ease of reference: Me (22) my primary boyfriend(28)=BA my secondary boyfriend(30)=BB secondary boyfriends...

It’s been really difficult honestly. I just feel so completely alone. He had everyone in his life rally around him and send him love and call and text and someone’s staying with him so he’s not lonely. He keeps going on about how cold and lonely it is in the big comfy bed we bought together. I’m...

So things ended up getting worse between me and my fiancé and I finally realized we were dragging each other down. Constant fighting and controlling behavior and trust issues, there was a lot to it. I ended up having my last straw and moved into my own apartment this weekend. I expected a lot...

@Magdlyn haven’t heard of opening up yet but we have read more than two, my fiancé bought it soon after he started researching poly and read it then passed it off to me to read. And yea I have thought about how it will be when he finds someone, I will probably have issues of my own at that...

Sorry it took so long to reply, life has been very crazy lately. I really appreciate all the advice and links. I have been talking to my fiancé, I don’t know where we are going from here yet but he still feels like he cannot handle me having a relationship. At one point he said he would step...

Thank you for the welcome and the helpful links. So far this site has been very friendly and helpful

So me and my fiancé are very new to polyamory and I wasn’t really looking for new partners but I met an amazing guy who is also poly and has a wonderful girlfriend that is happy for both of us. Unfortunately although my fiancé has been very gung ho about being poly (he’s the one that originally...

Hello! I am in a long term relationship (almost four years now!) with my fiancé and we did not even know what poly was until late last year. We still did not know anything about poly when we started a rather disastrous relationship with a woman. That relationship did not end very well but it did...