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I think it should be this thread. :-) I'm also one of invisibly disabled - to the point where strangers have commented when they see me get out of my car when I park in a disabled spot. I have a chronic immune system condition called Systemic Lupus (SLE) in my spine as well as Fibromyalgia...

Thanks for the response WhatHappened. You make a great point... I've shown him this thread - by sitting him in front of my computer and telling him to read it. At this point we are split up but I think I'm going to ask him to sit and read the thread again with all the additional comments. D...

GG - Thank you so much for the thoughts and support. It means a lot and really helped to put things into perspective for me. You're right - I can only control myself and my actions and I have to put on my own oxygen mask. I have to choose ME - and I do.

Quick recap of situation posted on another thread: My live-in E was pursuing a new possible interest, my friend D. After a number of boundaries were decided upon and agreed to - they immediately broke almost all of them. They had a public display of "making out" at a shopping center close to...

Thanks for the support... Things are still very uncertain around here. E has finally apologized but I still have no idea what I will do. Pondering the idea of PDA by a metamour with a SO has lead me to a couple of thought paths. I think I may post my thoughts on another thread to see if...

As far as PDA goes - it was always off the table for a few reasons. My family is local and already have some issues with E due to our first relationship go-around. As far as affection in front of her daughter - that was a decision that we all agreed upon and that was open to renegotiation...

I'm going through something incredibly similar to this thread this past week and I'm really relating to what everyone is saying - I could also use some advice and/or feedback. I've been in a relationship with E for 10 months this time around- it's our 2nd attempt. He was pursuing a new...

I'm not sure I've ever understood the labels thing myself. On the one hand I live with E - we sleep in the same bed when our work schedules allow, make decisions together, wear rings, and plan to get married "someday, maybe." I refer to him as my boyfriend, fiance, husband, or whatever-he-is...

Please forgive me if this rambles. Let's just preface this by saying that my degree is not in English and please know that if I misuse any terms, it's unintentional... Obviously I'm confused by the turns my life, and relationship, are taking - and I'm here trying to figure things in a forum...