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  1. happytriad

    Hello there - poly TN triad here

    We are near nashville. Honestly I have no idea what poly laws are here though I'd assume not good since we are in the heart of the bible belt. We haven't ever been to a poly meet up but there are several near us so support groups are around. Just haven't went yet.
  2. happytriad

    Bi =/= Poly

    Me too. I don't need both but happier when I have both at the same time.
  3. happytriad

    First Conversation With Family Member About Poly Relationship...

    My mom - didn't accept it well. I thought she would because she's always been very be who you want and I'll love you. She wasn't upset I was bisexual, she was upset I wouldn't divorce my husband and be with a woman because that would be "easier" on our child. Makes no sense. Then she moved...
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    Moved in with the married couple........

    This is a double standard. I am in a triad and can I offer some advice. You need to talk with them and remember that your opinion and needs matters as much as theirs. Why can you be with her alone but not him? I don't even get why that is an automatic assumption. I am the wife in the triad...
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    Polyamory and the "cave".

    We all share a bedroom, but we have a spare bedroom that we essentially use as the cave. It's where one of us goes if we need some space for whatever reason. Also, it is used for pair off sex as well when the third person in the group doesn't feel up to it. Sometimes me and the GF will sleep...
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    Ask a triad - advice column

    My first advice is to discuss between yourselves why you want a third. Is it for sex, is it for both of you to find someone compatible, are you looking for the same traits, are you looking for different traits, are you wanting something long term, something short term, would you like someone...
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    Ask a triad - advice column

    Thanks. We started as a V but evolved to a triad. We have had our ups and downs and I thought about starting this thread after reading about such bad experiences with them. I thought it might be a good place for those interested in learning what has worked for others. Of course what works for...
  8. happytriad

    Hello there - poly TN triad here

    Thank you so much for the welcome :)
  9. happytriad

    Ask a triad - advice column

    I am part of a FMF triad. It started as a V that moved to a triad. If anyone has questions for us on pretty much anything please ask away. We have learned a lot on what worked for us and what hasn't so I'd love to help others looking at starting this kind of configuration, are having trouble...
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    Thank you for the friend request

    Thank you for the friend request
  11. happytriad

    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Thank you. I know not all triads work, and there are people that are hurt by them, whether intentionally or not. I wanted to share what works for us, and that I completely understand how they can go bad, and what we've done to avoid that.
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    As a wife of a triad. Posts like these hurt my heart. There is DH, me, and our girlfriend. We began as a V, with DH in the center, and moved to a closed triad. I don't see anything wrong with couples looking for a third, because that is what they are looking for. They have the ability to find...
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    still going strong We've been together over a year the NRE has wore off but we still love it and are quite happy.
  14. happytriad

    Hello there - poly TN triad here

    Good afternoon, Just wanted to say "Hi." New to this site, but not new to poly. We are a TN triad (though this is the wife of the triad's account), not sure if the GF or DH will be creating accounts. Looking forward to meeting everyone and reading the threads.
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