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Thanks NyCindie, I appreciate the support :-) and GalaGirl, yeah I can see it as a lucky escape and a lesson learned. On another positive level - because this was chewing me up, I've done a lot of reading about polyamory in the last couple of weeks - 'The Ethical Slut' and 'Opening Up' -...

Thank you GalaGirl, you put it very clearly and I agree, I'm glad I'm out of it. I specially agree with this: This is what's really made me feel angry - and the head-spinny stuff. I realise I really need clarity and information about where someone is coming from in a potential relationship...

Thanks again to everyone who's replied. The update is we had a long phone conversation. I was dreading it as previous ones have been quite volatile, with reactions being triggered on both sides I'd say. So I tried my best not to sink into a blame game, while still trying to say what I feel...

Thank you for all the comments - its interesting there are some differences in how people see things- I find it helpful to get a range of views, and I'm sorry I haven't replied yet. (sorry work has been an intrusion.) I'm thinking it all through and will respond soon. Thanks again for...

Hello Poly people, I’ve just joined Polyamory.com, looking for help to manage a situation I’m in. I’ve never been in a poly relationship though I’m open to non-typical relationships and I have a bit of experience in the BDSM scene. I'm committed to negotiation and consent. I'm kinky and queer...