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Not in my college. Here, a lot of people are "open". But there's no love in those kinds of relationships, they're more about drunkenly kissing strangers at parties or sleeping with someone random. Even people in relationships often open up for specific parties so they can join in on the...

In the "triad" part of my current relationship, we met when we already all identified as poly. Our backstories on how we discovered it are all different. My first poly relationship started when I met a couple. The girl initiated opening up so they could both explore their bisexuality, the guy...

That's awesome!

I hadn't thought about it yet that way. My relatiomships now feel better than any I've had before, which I'm very grateful for. My stable basis right now is my girlfriend - not because our connection is 'best', but because she wants something similar as me. Our male love doesn't feel the same...

I'm indeed young and know that my priorities might change. But as of now, I kind of feel like "I want it all". I've never truly understood jealousy; to me it's only relevant when I'm about to lose something or someone and then still it's more of a rational thought than an emotion. Also, I've...

I understand I still have a lot to learn about relationships, thank you for broadening my view! For myself I still have a fantasy of long, stable relationship(s) though :)

Thanks for the awesome replies! I realised I haven't explained my situation yet. My first encounter with polyamory was a bit miserable. An existing couple (of two cute shy 18 year olds) dragged me in as a third. But there were too many struggle points: I felt secondary, I quickly realised I...

I didn't intend to define it as a closed triad at all! I only define it as poly if there's more than one love, not just more than one bed partner.

Hello, I am just a rookie when it comes to polyamory. I am 19 years old and have been in a happy poly situation for a few months, with two people who are intimate with each other as well. It doesn't feel like a triad however because the connections are all very different. I've been yearning for...

for me it was the guy, twice Im in a situation that comes closest to an unofficial triad, with another woman and a man. They've been together way longer than I've been with them, but he was the one who initiated poly. Of the people who introduced me to poly (a different couple), the guy was...

Hello, I have a relationship (sort of, we don't do labels) with two people (one man, one woman) since a few months/nearly half a year. It's great, best relationship I've ever been in and it's the first non-monogamous one. My partners have been together for 2 years in a monogamous relationship...

Hello! I know a few people in happy, open relationships. One couple are monogamous in terms of love, but open when it comes to casual hookups. I've been both a close friend and one of the hook ups. Would you like to know more about it?

Hello, I recently stumbled into a poly relationship and came here for advice and information, besides wanting to meet people in similar situations. I identify as mono, I feel open relationships would work just fine for me but fell in love with a poly guy. His (other) girlfriend is probably mono...