I don't have experience in this,0 but you are not being unrealistic. It makes sense. You are a closed triad and they are your partners and it sounds like they are being vague; maybe because they're scared about opening up the relationship in the financial direction and don't know how to approach...
First, I agree with what others have said about educating yourself around poly AND changing your thinking of "your man/penis" as its dehumanising. He's your best friend right?
Soyou say: ..."it's just that the thought of my man making another woman feel the way he makes me feel, sexually AND...
When I made the final decision to not have a polyamorous relationship with my partner, I did it because I knew that I wanted polyamory starting alone, with my own baggage and not have to deal with a partner who wasn't able to face their own actions/fears/worries.
I guess this whole situation...
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Hello lovely people! Rechristening here. I am solo poly, with one partner, almost three years together. We swing together and share as much as we can.
About four years ago, I broke up with my civil partner. We'd been together for 11 years, hitched for...
It's been 3 years since I joined this forum and my solo poly journey took a turn that has surprised me and thrilled me to bits! I hadn't realised I signed up on this forum and boom! Full circle!
I think the same; that Sofia is on her way out. Even if she doesn't want therapy, it might help you to go see a (poly) therapist yourself so that you can have that support whilst you are going through this rocky, crazy, lovely space. Big hugs.