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I'm gonna hang a limb here and say he is bi, he was bi until women hurt him so badly that he decided to be gay. He wasn't "man enough" for most women and I suspect he had cross dressing issues that women don't usually accept. Of course, this is only what I glean from conversations that we have...

I looked at CL a couple times cuz I had been wondering if I could find a tranny or drag queen that was bi or straight (I doubt the last exists), because I find that I am so attracted to my BF female persona, but not to female "equipment" so to speak, but what I found there was... not nice. I'm...

I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I'm enjoying the sexual tension that exists between my guy's female persona and myself - which seems to keep going higher and higher... LOL. There are ways to relieve the frustration between times and companionship, love and affection are...

Lol. Will and Grace we are not. I wish it was that simple.

Hi again, Well, I read this over and I think... hummm, things have changed, nothing for the bad, but my feelings/opinions are changing. I've been looking for a place to talk and some advice...and keep coming back to thinking about this forum. But before I start hijacking things here or (since I...

Yes, B. is definitely a metamour relationship. I really don't know if I'm poly or mono... I've been mono up until this point. And normally very, very jealous, but that could be because the last two relationships I've had I've been left for another, so... Honestly, I've never had a healthy...

well, that's interesting since I probably have Aspergers and am finally finding my comfortzone as a wing in a Vee relationship.

Hi River, This is where I am at. And I agree there are a thousand ways to be in such a relationship. For me, the line stops at soft kissing, no tongues. I find tongue kissing too much of a turn on and feel that it would make me disrespect his sexuality, by attempting to cross HIS boundaries...

This is the way I feel about my primary. I have made the choice to be with him even though he is sexually wired to be gay and we are abstinent, because I love him that much. I do find that while I am not jealous of his primary at all, a friend.. who is very much never going to be involved with...

Thanks, Anotherbo. I think so too. It's just all so new and different, but I'm happy and so are they... can't see anything wrong with that!

I'm glad to "hear" someone voice this, "non-sexual passionate love". I love my BF, my primary, who is a gay man. I have long felt that physical affection is often mistook for something it isn't. I love to touch him, hold his hands, kiss him sweetly, lay in his arms, but that doesn't mean I want...

I would like some gay/bi/queer men to comment on my thread in the new to poly forum, "What is this?". I think it would be really beneficial to me to get the take of gay men on my relationship. Basically, I am the wing in a FMM Vee. I have a deep need for emotional intimacy, but not so deep a...

First of all, *BIG HUGS* I am in a situation where my Primary identifies as gay and live with a man in a committed relationship. I am female and identify as straight. We make a very comfortable Vee. I am not jealous over his partner. I too held back from falling in love with him (mostly...

I'm involved in a FMM Vee and I've not hidden it at all from my friends. Of course this is all new to me and quite freeing... so maybe I'm not being smart by being 'out'. Some of them definitely don't approve, some just wonder what the heck is going on... I don't feel the need to explain.

Hi, I am new to all of this and frankly have an acquaintance that is poly and have been very critical of her relationships in the past. She is involved in a triad with her husband and another man. She is the hinge. I have never seen the two men have any involvement with each other... they are...