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    How many people in your whole polycule?

    "That AI sexbot doesn't really love you" she said. "Neither do you" he replied.
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    How to break up with a couple

    You should break up in person, if you can. If it will be too much, go ahead and do it by text. I wouldn't give reasons, because that invites a debate. Just say it's not working for you, wish them the best, and cut it off. You are doing the right thing.
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    Trying out a triad

    I found some of Pumpkin's old modeling photos when she had long hair. This was before her marriage ended. Since then, she had kept her hair short and shaves half her head. It's like she decided to reject the image of conventional beauty in reaction. She is still beautiful - gets her hair and...
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    New way to love-- opening my marriage

    I do get negative sometimes about the 'perfect' life that I lost, but I should feel lucky - lucky that we've found a partner that supports us, that is a great second mom. That we avoided divorce. That my wife avoided a breakdown. I hope that Pumpkin feels lucky too. To have found a family that...
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    How many people in your whole polycule?

    Cookie, Pumpkin, and me. (I should get a nickname) It is a triad, sexually. I'd like it to be a triad emotionally, but right now it feels more like a V with Cookie as the hinge.
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    A Wild Preston Has Appeared! - insert 8-bit Pokémon music

    We go to a Presbyterian church. The old church ladies might whisper about it, but nobody says anything to us.
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    Trying out a triad

    Cookie and Pumpkin were away for a few days with Leslie's (Cookie's cousin) at her lake cottage for a girls retreat. For my birthday Cookie, Pupkin, the kid, and I went out to eat. The girls put on matching outfits for bed which I guess was meant as a gift to me. I do like when they wear...
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    Disliking Threesomes

    I sympathize. It is a lot of work. I'm kinda over it, but the women want it that way. I travel often, so they have opportunities to be a couple, but when I'm home, it's always three. I don't want to hijack your thread, I just wanted to say that the way you feel is normal.
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    What are the characteristics or qualities of emotional and relational maturity?

    I know that it was a major turning point for me when my wife dropped the poly bomb on me - because it was the thing that made me face the fact how bad things had gotten in our marriage. I was hurt - badly hurt - that she sought comfort in another, but it was the trigger that made me take down...
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    Trying out a triad

    I've been to so many parties this summer, and had so much to eat and drink, that I've noticed my pants getting a little tight. I've sworn off excess calories until I get back in shape - and sadly, that means beer is out for now.
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    Trying out a triad

    Cookie and Pumpkin are going away for the weekend with Cookie's cousin to stay at her cottage. They deserve a break and I hope they come back refreshed with their emotional batteries recharged, but it's tough being the one left behind.
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    Questions about sex

    I don't know about cost. Cookie really likes it because it made her period almost nothing. She has the kind with hormones, but you can get one that uses copper. So far it's been effective - for many years with Cookie. Pumpkin has had it for less than a year.
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    Questions about sex

    I offered to get a vasectomy, but the ladies both have IUDs. They like that it makes their periods shorter. STDs are not a concern because it is just the three of us.
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    Trying out a triad

    Went to a wedding yesterday for Cookie's cousin. People were gossiping about a certain couple that was there - because after the groom's parents separated, the groom's father lived with this family for a time and it was rumored that they would all share a bed sometimes. Many people that were...
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    Trying out a triad

    There are eight certifications that I'm expected to hold ranging from technical to accounting to business. I'm allowed to retest as many times as they will let me get away with missing my personal KPIs at my performance reviews. I'm only reimbursed for the first attempt and the tests average...
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    Trying out a triad

    Took an exam this morning that I'm sure I bombed. Keeping up with the latest certifications is a requirement for my job, so I'm feeling stressed. Went to a party at Barb's house. The brisket was excellent. They had a live band too.
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    Trying out a triad

    Cookie and Pumpkin are going to a concert tonight. Country music 🤠(n) not my taste. I don't enjoy crowds and noise either, so I'm happy to be staying home.
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    Trying out a triad

    Pumpkin made one of my favorite dinners and Cookie's cousin joined us for dinner. She is living out her 'ho' phase after getting divorced and I find her dating stories entertaining.
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    Age Gaps in Committed, Enduring Relationships

    My girlfriend is 18 years younger than me, but it doesn't feel like it. I suppose at a certain age it stops being a big issue.
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    Trying out a triad

    I'm thinking back to one year ago, before Cookie had dropped the bomb. The way Pumpkin started acting different. I was oblivious at the time, but Cookie must have started giving indications that a relationship was possible. I think that Pumpkin had a crush on Cookie going back for years, but...
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