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I decided to start a new blog as the one I had before is so far off from my poly life now, though it has not been that long. I will start with a quick review of how I came to poly... About a year and a half ago I found myself feeling very unhappy with life. I had everything I had ever wanted...

Update Again I kind of feel like my life has been turned into a soap opera because I have so much going on. I’m not much into drama but I have to admit I like my life exciting. A few not so pleasant things have happened in the past month but they seemed to have worked out for now so all is...

Struggling with OPP All this talk about having an OPP I decided I would like to comment but figured here was a better place than on the new thread because I really have no idea what I am talking about. When I first began thinking about poly it was because I was interested in women and having my...

Still confused but happier than ever Hi! It’s been quite a while since I have posted anything, mainly because I have a lot of ongoing “relationships” of some form or another that I have been deepening, building or reestablishing but I have still been lurking occasionally and figured an update...

OkCupid After Brewer decided that he would be okay trying poly I started an okcupid account because I have no idea how to meet a woman! I found someone who seemed interesting and sent her a message, let’s call her Yara. We totally hit it off, started messaging, texting and then I went to meet...

Thanks😁 Hi, First, I will say thank you for all of the congrats😁. When I imagined transitioning to poly I did not anticipate “falling” for a man I’ve never met, many, many miles away. But Im glad that it happened😁. Even if Al and I never meet we will both be happy with the fact that we have...

Decidedly poly Well, Brewer and I just officially decided on poly. He is excited about someone. He is still very uncomfortable with the idea of me with another guy...but since my current interest is really far away he is reluctantly okay with us seldomly ever seeing each other😁. He is open to...

A lot can change It’s been a while since I posted...I am still having discussions with Brewer about poly. He is really back and forth about it. It’s hard for him to reconcile it with his beliefs about marriage and religion. A couple of weeks ago, we almost broke up. We are now back to joking...

Poly downside I just discovered the downside to poly. So many more people to disappoint you. After the weekend I had last weekend I had too high of expectations for this evening and everyone ended up flaking out. Brewer was staying home to watch the kids and I was going to go out with everyone...

Hi it’s BouncingBetty! Hi! I don’t know why I was accidentally deemed spam and I’m not sure if I was supposed to wait until the error was fixed but I am impatient so I just made myself a new name.

Finally talked to Brewer I don't know why I keep getting so nervous to have conversations with Brewer, he is amazing. We were able to talk again tonight. He talked about his reservations and I talked about my fantasies. I told him about my feelings for Iron. He said that he is a great guy and...

Persons of Interest I am a 32 year old bisexual female and my husband Brewer is a 38 year old heterosexual male. My (Brewer likes her too) first romantic interest was Sally. She is a 32 year old bisexual female. We have been good friends for about 10 years. She is currently moving in with us...

Hi! I have been lurking a lot, reading other people's entire stories. I thought it may be beneficial for me to write this down since I have very few people whom I can discuss these things with. I did write an intro but I will do a quick recap.... My husband, Brewer and I just had our 4 year...

Thanks for that insight. Update: We actually had a generic polyamorous discussion last night (my husband, friend and I) which went well. She has known other people in polyamorous relationships and she would not be judgmental but she doesn't think she could ever do it herself. Good to know. I...

Thanks for your response. I know it's more likely that she would only be interested in one(but a girl can dream right) if at all, considering poly is pretty taboo in our community. I really didn't know anything about it until my recent research. My husband and I have barely scratched the...

Thank you. This is all helpful. I am just going to act "normal" for now and see how everything goes. I may at some point try a discussion about poly in general and hear her opinions, after all I don't even know what my husband and I will ultimately decide about becoming poly, no need to rush...

That's what I am thinking, the real question is whether I bring it up so that she is aware before she decides to move in or just pretend the attraction is not there and don't say anything until she has other housing options at least. I have had feelings for her for many years so it shouldn't be...

Hi! I just did an introduction yesterday. Basically, my husband and I are considering poly. We have this friend whom we both have strong feelings for and I think they may be mutual. But, she of course knows nothing about our recent discussions of polyamory and the relation of the discussions to...

Hi! My husband and I are extremely new to polyamory. Really, we have only been talking about it for about a month. I never really thought of polyamory as an option, I didn't think being bisexual was either. I have always known I was attracted to females but since I always fell in love with men...