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Im sure nothing can be done from here on in, just let give space and time settle in and unfold itself. But I feel I have all these feelings and I have nowhere to share it, except here it seems. This forum that I found a few days ago. NRE, its consuming me but at the same time deep down inside...

I read the whole thing. Life is intricate. I myself am going through a similar situation that I started a thread on. Im not Poly neither are the people that are involved in my situation but its seems or feel complex, something similar to yours. And I feel human emotions and life just sometimes...

I think mostly pondering if I couldve done something different like never bring up the intensity of the friendship to N to begin with. So she would never had to confess her feelings to me. And maybe the NRE wouldnt be in flame. Would NRE happen even without confessions of feelings of two people...

So after taking GalaGirl's advice. I decided to take a breather and just breathe and let things be. N right now is off the grid due to family emergency. She was suppose to go to on a trip with us next week, which we all had planned many many months ago before everything blew up. And I was out...

Yes ktd26417 You are right. I am moving forward without J's consent. I think part if it now posting in here I realized its Nre and also the fear of losing this connection I have with N. But after reading a few replies I am now weirdly more calm and see things more objectively. There is no...

I wasn't sure if I should start an account and post here to begin with. But I did last night. And even with the few replies I got from here. It has immensely helped me feel better and also realizing I was trying to push it into a mold where as things should be let itself flow naturally. Thank...

Thank you for that reply GalaGirl. That is amazing. I think that is definitely what I need, to shine the light on the things I cant see and cant figure out. And you are on point that I kinda ding it with the NRE rush. Even made N felt pressured in some sense that she has to be friends with J...

Heres an interesting one. So it seems Ive talked to some friends who are Poly about my situation and it helped a little. So how this all started, Im mono, my wife and Ive been married for 8years. Im 34, shes 30. We are both monogamous our whole lives. During the 8years like everything else...