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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    It's not that sex is off the table, it's that I'm sharing this incredibly precious thing with others, with people I don't feel deserve it. I have put half of my life into taking care of her, loving her the best I can, and these are just people looking for a goddess for their fun. I'm probably...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    I understand it's not guaranteed that I get to be part, I just don't want to be left out. I love sex, maybe too much. I would have sex with my wife morning, noon, and night if I could, but she doesn't want me as I want her, that's part of what makes this painful. It makes me feel ugly and...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    I am interested in threesomes, or where all four of us are together. She is beginning to see couples. But she says I'm not ready, and maybe I'm not. I'm shy, unconfident, and VERY insecure. She's been my only partner. I would much rather be part of it, instead of being at home crying, as is the...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    Thank you. I am trying to come to grips with my situation. I need to find some happiness somewhere in this. I told her last night that I want her to include me, but she says I'm not ready. Still looking for the win, although, being with her is a win, and her being happy is a win. I will succeed...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    She says it's not just about sex, she wants deep intimate relationships with others, while I am the primary. I have "given consent," but I'm not happy. I want her to be happy, but I'm suffering and I'm on this platform looking for help. She says she didn't realize she was poly until well into...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    It's a little bit sympathy, and I'm a bit of an obstacle. Or I feel that way from what she says. She says it's not just about sex, but having deep connections with others, as well as sex. Besides staying with her, no, I don't feel I'm getting anything I need, but her not leaving me. She says I...
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    How do I feel ok with my wife opening our relationship?

    As you might guess, this is all very new for me. My wife and I have been together for 22 years. She had a couple affairs that we have gotten past, although I'm still hurt by. She has always wanted more, and I'm letting her explore. She is absolutely gorgeous and I know she'll find many...
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