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An Update. I don't think this is going to work out. It's been over a month and he hasn't agreed to set a date to talk about my concerns, even though I expressed it was important to me. The only other thing this past month I've expressed as being important to me: sending him a two or three...

Wow, thank you guys so much for your time. Just to follow up: I delineated a list of actions based on how y'all responded to the situation and now I'm feeling a lot more empowered :) I think I just wasn't sure if I was being overly sensitive or jealous or something or if there were...

Oh, it just seemed inconsequential. I didn't realize that was his intention but if that was I was happy to be in that kind of relationship. The more important thing is that we remain close and supportive to each other, not what the label is or how "romantic" we are. It just seems if we are going...

I don't think he's trying to boss me around, as much as it sounds like it. This is his first poly relationship and he doesn't identify as poly, so he has a lot of jealousy issues and seems really afraid of losing us. I wrote another post about this but it hasn't gone through the moderators yet...

Kind of scared to do that if our relationship is on the rocks. I feel like it'd hurt his feelings and that I'd lose him entirely. Not saying that's right -- just might need to work out stuff between us first. I'm not sure. For example: Last night, my roommates/neighbors threw a house show at...

BrigidsDaughter: Yes, that's a HUGE part of it. I've been trying to talk to them about it but I feel like I haven't been able to get a good answer. GalaGirl: This post was REALLY helpful. I really appreciate you taking the time to write all that out. Just a few responses to questions /...

Thanks for the replies! I agree that it's not his job to make me happy -- that's not really my intention. I'm just wondering if there's any support that I CAN ask for, and what that is. I am really afraid to express my needs because whenever I do his SO gets upset, because her needs are pretty...

I've had a friend for years that I am very close to. We spend most of our time together and though for me it didn't feel overtly romantic, he informed me that he was under the impression we were dating. That was fine with me; I don't really care about terminology as long as I can maintain my...