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    Wasn't expecting this..

    Well..we had a really great talk about everything. There were misconseptions about where we were both coming from and it was wonderfull to clear the air. GF was worried that I was somehow in favor of our relationship being 'casual'. I was also able to express my concerns about her feelings ( not...
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    Morethantwo is superbly written and gives reasoned and thoughtfull insight as to whether or not this path is workable for some and not for others. Once again LR, thankyou so much for the feedback and direction. I do know that if the topic come's up again, from my perspective there will be the...
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    Once again, thankyou LovingRadiance and SusyQ for the straight talk, it has really helped. My motives are possibly wrong in the sense that they could be defensive, in that my thinking was that it would be better for a liason now rather than have it hanging over the relationship. I know it may...
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    Thanks LovingRadiance, yes my GF pointed out the opening the door to the heart issue and yes its something I'm aware of. That pretty much ended the topic of discussion. Then a few minutes later when we were talking about something totally different, GF suddenly and laughingly blurted out that...
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    Thanyou so much Jane, no none of us are poly..yet..lol. GF had mentioned this guy after we got together. Two years on and its only right to share the news,I guess. I don't want her haunted by the thought of what she missed out on. And he needs someone he can trust without comittment,an FWB if...
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    First post succesfull,yeehaw! First issue. I've been having feelings of guilt that the timing has been wrong for them because she is now committed in our relationship even though I am well aware of an attraction between them. My GF is the one to bring it up ( I've been very carefull not to in...
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    Okay, where to start..my girlfriend and I have been back in a relationship for 6 months after a 2 year break. The first time round my "mind set" just wasn't there but we both have very stong feelings for each other and after making me jump though hoops she agreed to give it another try. We are...
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