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Hello WhatHappened. I am new at this too. I have been in my current relationship now for about 7 weeks. My lover & I have grown quite fond of one another in this short time. I too struggle with "letting myself fall in love." I made a list of the things that I was afraid of regarding this...

Thank you Jericka & nycindie for your words. I am very new to being in a polyamory relationship. This is my first ever, so i haven't yet figured out all of the "rules?" I was in a "monogamous marriage" for over 17 years, and that didn't work out. Being poly is totally a new concept for me, but i...

No, greenfizzppops, not yet. I think that i should meet her. Meeting her I think would help me to control my jealousy. I know very little about her, except that I suspect she is the controlling force in the relationship. He came to my house on our last date nite, brought his phone, and she...

Sorry, I should clarify about his timing on polyamory. He told me on the phone before we had our second date. We had been talking to each other on the phone & had our first coffee date. I am glad that he told me up front before we started making love to each other. I think that Jeff has been...

Thank you, newtoday! I appreciate your words of wisdom. I have some days where I am ok with this new relationship & other days where I i wonder if I am totally crazy for accepting this relationship. I don't like being the second, I would rather be equal to his other girl friend, and I...

Hello! I am a complete newbie to polyamory. I was married for over 17 years to a man whom i recently found out that he had cheated on me with a member of my family. We are currently separated, and will be divorced in about 4 months. My ex-husband and i have had a very poor relationship at best...