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"heyyyyyy laddddyyy" that's what I use lol

id have to agree, kdt.

we have never forced her to do or say or act any way. we have told her from the beginning that we seek a relationship, and if she is uncomfortable and doesn't want to pursue that's fine, and we will be good as friends if that's what she wants. the ball is very much in her court, we just ask...

I would have to agree. in fact, a few months ago, maybe in September during the seahawks game, a giant house spider walked through a crowd of toddlers at our house. we captured it, and I kept it as a pet. I fed it flies and cleaned its jar. took it to a arachnologist to have it identified as a...

Ok, lets try this a second time. what sent me to this forum? well, hubs and I have been together a long time, together 11 years, married 4 years. we have a beautiful 2 year old boy who I take care of and my husband works in the technology sector. so I guess, after 10 years together, we...

thank you, I didn't feel like I was stalking when its more like your messaging with that person and it says where they are right under their name. lol. I guess im obsessively observant? lol its more like, shes a bit young still, and we don't want to bombard her with all this shit from people...

lynn, your picture freaked me out. I thought there was a spider on my laptop! =)

were not British, but we are eager to please. :) (having not had sexual anything yet, we are super eager to please lol)

I would have preferred her say that she needed time, rather than telling us something different. we don't take offence, we understand. were not down her throat with crazy accusations. one step a a time, is my mantra for this situation.

i agree. I really didn't like being called a stalker. especially since im new here, and to this whole thing. I need kind and sensitive rebuttal, not criticism of how im handling a relationship. lol

*confused* hi London. its nice meeting you =)

I understand that. but having not known us, its kind of a messed up thing to say. but whatever, I see what your trying to say. and im sorry if it seems that way. we did not confront her last night, she told us she was at home, and so that's what we have to believe. the more that we are...

that was kind of mean. im not stalking, if I was stalking wouldn't I be trying to go to her house and sit outside of her window or something? its really not my fault that facebook tells you where people are. its pretty much my only form of communication since my phone barely works. I feel...

the only reason I said lying and dishonesty is because, we had plans. solid, talked to you a few hours earlier" type of deal. and then all of a sudden, shes not at home like she said she was, and is not talking to me, we haven't heard from her today, despite her being on facebook and her...

just go get tested every 6 months. that's what I do, even before we opened our marriage up. you can get home tests now right?

thanks guys. it helps a lot, even though we aren't trying to mold ourselves into a label, its nice to have the words. im not even sure if this is going to work out. she was suppose to come over last night, I confirmed at noon that day, all was good. then at 630 she said she was tired and...

i meant we are unique as in people. not situation. :)

sorry guys, im just trying to navigate this new part of our life, and not try to label us, but for reference incase of future conversations, it is helpful.

So basically if hubs and I are wanting to be with just her but she's having sex etc with "ex" bf but we do not want him to be a part of our relationship with us is that still polyfidelious or poly exclusive? Feels more like a friend situation right now. Not sure how to help progress things as...

well, we are more of "courting" this woman, than saying we are officially in a relationship with her so far. we have both told her we like her, and she says we are awesome, but she isn't sure if she can or cannot be with us. its more of we are all just riding the proverbial poly wave, waiting to...