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It doesn't bother me that my wife thinks about her bf during sex, it kind of turns me on. Sometimes I ask her what she thinking about, she always tell me the truth. I've been in a poly mono relationship for 17 years, works for us. When she has a new bf, i give her some space and let the NRE...

I can understand accessing the comfort levels and leaning something new, but I don't discuss boundaries with my wife boyfriend. That is her relationship; I let her set the boundaries. I do not interfere in her relationship, if she asks my opinion I will give it that’s about it. I do not treat...

We really don't have rules, and we have been practicing polyamory over 15 years. I am monoamorous and she is polyamorous. She only has one boyfriend at a time (by her choice, not a rule) and they tend to last a long time (years). I would never tell her how to have sex, where to have sex, and...

Good advice Mono. I usually reach out first to my wife BF, to make him feel welcome and part of our lives. Things seems to go better when everybody is friends. Maybe I'm weird, but it’s a turn on to me when my wife is with her BF.

I wouldn't do it, not with young kids. You run the risk of your kids being taken away. Google Kendra Holliday and see what happened to her when she came out of the closet. But then again she came out to the whole community. We are debating coming out, our youngest is 18 and is a senior in...

My wife is not into casual sex, that wouldn't happen. She did go to a Jack and Jill party with her boy friend and masturbated with 2 other couples. She told me afterwards, I was fine with it. I agree with polytriad, standards are not boundaries. Sometimes poly people treat the 3rd...

I agree. I would suggest that she googles to see if there is a active poly group in her area. We joined a poly group years ago, they helped me with my issues.

I support boundaries that my wife sets for herself. I don't see how people can have a real relationship with restrictions, but to each their own. As long as her BF treats her right and makes her happy, I'm fine with what ever they do. I do think no kissing is a little silly. You can have sex...

Our NE Ohio poly group have pot luck munches. All three of us go, we get to socialize with other poly people and have a fun time playing games ect. It’s not an intimate date, but it’s a date all three of us can go on. If your in the closet, that’s one place you don’t have to worry about being...

I don't understand the concept of boundaries, I am mono and my wife is poly. My wife relationship with her boyfriend is their relationship; it’s unique and different from my relationship with my wife. I do not tell my wife what she can and can't do with her BF, I do not interfere with their...