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Broken up with my poly boyfriend and it is hard. His explaination was that I didn't know myself but I am mono and deal with poly with a difficult: to explain to someone like him. ETC. He always said that I was trying too hard. I must admit it I was at TIMES ! but nothing over the top. I have...

I know, it is so difficult not to talk this thru, to explain feelings, etc

Update ****Update I have messaged my metamour. Only problem, is that I did not tell my partner and now he feels betrayed. This was NOT what I had meant to do ! How can I fix this ? How to tell him it wasn't meant to be malice but from a good place. Help !

Poly isn't a very big thing in Pittsburgh. Doesn't seem to be many of us here or we just haven't found them. Have you tried any Yahoo groups ? I live in a small Rural town in Va and I was able to find a poly group. It was really awesome, at least for me personally. I do agree with...

I think you need to sit down and talk with him. I mean, REALLY talk, tell him how you are feeling. Poly is not easy even with people know what is going on. I am Mono myself, I have felt the loniess, the "second best" and WTF?! That is my personal fave. With the thing I have learned, is...

You have hit the nail on the head, SchrodingersCat! It is that I am mourning and I want to talk about it, to help them heal form it, etc etc. I must apologize for earlier, I was all over the place and that is never good. I am going to reach out to my Meta and hoping she will not see it as a...

I knew that there was some problems but they were working it thru. He hasn't told me the reason behind it but I know he feels like a failure. He is processing everything right now. I think this is where guys have a different way of commincating. They take everything and go into their cave...

Yes, good point. Just feeling a bit lost and unsure. I have looked up to them in some weird way, as poly couple. I know I should not have but they have both helped me so much.

I am upset that they are splitting up. Yes, I had no clue that the marriage is coming to an end. I have come to love and care for them deeply. I want to be there for them but not sure how to balance it.

Hello, I have been reading the forum for awhile now and I have gotten AMAZING information. It has helped me so much as this is my first poly relationship. We have been in a relationship for over 6 months and it has been really wonderful. No, problems there. I just found out yesterday that my...

Hi ! I am currently in a relationship with a poly man for 6 months and I am mono. I am brand new to this way of thinking. Must admit it is more of a struggle than what I thought it would be. It doesnt help with my bf and metamour make it look so easy. They have been poly for almost 6 years...