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You say this as if it is automatic and expected for everyone to struggle with fidelity. This has not been my experience. When I love someone, I don't feel any struggle to be faithful to them. My love sustains me and there is no reason not to be faithful, and I've never felt any temptation to...

Hello. I don't think a lot of what you've posted has made much sense to me, but this paragraph is especially odd. I don't think it's that common for people to feel that fantasizing is a sin, thankfully. That would be a rather immature and unevolved view (I generally feel sorry for anyone who...

Hello everyone! I have been reading this forum for a few months now. My partner visits occasionally also. Just saying hello. I hope to dip my toes in, ask questions, and add to threads, hopefully in a way that is helpful. Thanks to you all for being here!

Hi! Been lurking for a few months and have followed your thread and others, with interest. I am looking for some insight. How can you be sure that playing around and getting a hickey is all that happened, even though you didn't want him to? Or when you say they played around, do you mean...