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What poly specific books will you read in 2014?

Work and family commitments has tied up most of the time! My GF would like more but I have so much on my plate right now that is all I can give her. Sometimes I feel like I'm ripping her off!

I've known the woman for two and half years but really got serious about 6 months ago. We have been having overnights for about two months.

This really should be a poll but I don't know how to do that on here. Interested in what other people are doing out there with their relationships. How many days per week do you all spend with your primary and secondary. I spend 1 night a week with my secondary and every other week I spend two...

I know I don't have time for it but I search out relationships with people who are busy like my wife and I. I find time in my days to text or something and see the other when I can.

What are you afraid of loosing? I fought with this same issue and had trial by fire when my wife left the country to travel with a guy for two weeks. I figured out that I was jealous because I was fearful of loosing her to this guy.

I am just looking for others experiences regarding this matter. Any advise or experiences would be helpful. Thanks

Well, from my limited perspective, not having been there in your shoes, I can say that you may need to explore the boundaries with your wife. I would also think that if you were uncomfortable with what was going on you should have told him to stop! The other guy can't read minds, I'm sure of...

Hi all, I am new to this site so I will introduce myself! I have been what I would term Poly for a long time. I have had a lover for a long time but it turned into a deep friendship the past few years so i have gotten back into understanding Poly on a deeper level. I am married and have a...

Sleep overs I have started a new relationship and have been asked by my lover if I could spend the night. My wife and I discussed this and she is good to go. I understand about NRE and want to and want to be with my lover a lot but I don't want to overdo it. I know the boundaries with my...

Okc I have a profile set up on OKC and have started some really wonderful conversations with others. I have found a few Poly people on the site that are very willing to discuss Poly and see where things go. I have made a new connection to a person that I am interested in meeting. The big...