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We are in Corpus Christi and would love to meet other poly people to hangout with and friendship. We have found it very difficult to meet other poly people in this area, but also find most people that classify themselves as poly here, are more into swinging. We have nothing against...

Hello and Welcome. Always nice to see other poly people here in Texas!

That is very true! And that is really what our realtor is doing actually. Most definitely a contract between the 3 of us in the event of a break up and even in the event of death, already been discussed and all agree it is a must.

We are currently looking to buy a new house that better fits a V poly group. Its myself, my wife and her boyfriend. Question is, how much do you tell your realtor about the arrangement, if anything at all...And I know it is probably pretty obvious to our realtor that we intend to all live...

Thanks for all the answers to my question! It looks like everyone has some kind of arrangement, but it is designed for what works best in each situation. Currently we are looking for a new house that better fits our situation, where everyone will be more comfortable, as well as have space of...

Sleeping arrangement - Question My wife's boyfriend of four years just moved in with us about two months ago. Their relationship had been a long distance one for those for years. He would visit three or four times a year two to four weeks at a time. He and I get along great, so there is no...

Has there been any conversation about poly relationships between you and your husband? Is he familiar with the term and concept? How did you find out about poly? Did you read an article or see something on TV or read a book on poly? Maybe whatever means you learned about poly, you could show...

I have to say f etlife does have some really good forms, also.

Hey wonder woman, I must say it is possible. My wife and I have been married for 15 years. She has had a long distance boyfriend who is also a very good friend of mine. He and I are both heterosexual. And just 3 weeks ago he moved across the country to live with us! One thing that is true for...

OK! You are correct...it was still early, lol! I was looking at your "join date" for some reason! Good luck on the research, would love to here what you produce from it in the end.

Did not realize the last post on this thread was from over a year ago until after I completed the survey. Interesting questions. I would be very curious to see the final piece you wrote on Threesomes.

My wife and I consider her other partner her boyfriend. I also consider him as an actual friend as well.

That sounds like a very good arrangement that works for all 3 (4) of you. We did originally all 3 sleep in our kind size bed the first year or two when my wife's boyfriend would visit (which was usually 2-4 weeks at a time), which worked ok for awhile, but we all decided him having his own space...

Hello Katy and welcome! Sounds like you have a deep sense of compersion for your ex's, even if they are ex's. How have the new girlfriends responded to you remaining friends and wanting to interact with them gone over with them? If both your ex and his new girlfriend are comfortable with it...

My wife's boyfriend will be moving here in the very near future. They have been together long distance for 4 years and he and I get along great. I'm just curious of others living arrangements. Sleeping arrangements? does everyone have their own space? We all have a pretty good idea of our...

I have to admit, I also get very aroused hearing/seeing my wife have sex with her boyfriend..Very much so. And she knows I do (and he does also) and we are very open with each other about that. It's also a good tool to use if I ever get that occasional tinge of jealousy, I just remind myself the...

My wife and I have been on fetlife for a long time. I would say much more active over there, but find poly.com to be a great resource... PM here if you want our profile name over there....

I don't feel that the husband should have asked that question if he didn't want or couldn't handle an honest answer. It's almost like setting up the wife to stroke his ego and she didn't do that, she answered him honestly... But with that said, diplomacy (like previously posted) and tact is...

I don't see anything wrong with guidelines either. I do believe writing it down can open doors to conversations and topics that may be hard to bring up. Communication is the key and like any relationship, poly relationships change and grow as things go along. You may find yourself more...

Hello and welcome! There is a lot of great information and resources here . What kind of response or feedback did you get from your husband on this? It can work but does take a lot of communication and openness . Would love to hear more Good luck!