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so have they actually met already? I mean, instead of waiting longer, what if they just meet over coffee or tea and chat? no sex, no expectations for anything futher, but just to see if the two actually click on any level?

Nope, we Russians also applaud for the same reasons. :cool: hehe I also do like this thread very much. :)

I was just thinking along the lines of ~handling the 'term-limited' relationship~, the way you handle any relationship...because any other relationship can and most likely will change. Sex may come and go, love may come and go, friendships may come and go etc. or maybe I'm just not quite sure...

This line popped out at me: "'term limited' relationship" I'm no expert, but, relationships aren't static and they are constantly changing and re-forming...there is no such thing as 'forever'...it could be, but no one ever knows what's going to happen...be it any relationship: from friendships...

haha awesome :) it was interesting to hear the bit where she said (I cannot remember her name :confused:) that the moment we numb the "bad" feelings, we numb everything else (joy for example), as there is no way to avoid/block/pretend-they-don't-exist selectively.

TED talks Hey Derby! Have you heard of TED talks? There is one on vulnerability, it's quite interesting, I can find it for you if you'd like :)

Well, the purpose isn't to actually figure out what to buy, but to start the conversation. Really, don't think too much about what to say, but how you say it. Treat her as a friend, and don't put too much expectation on the outcome, just relax. You like her because she is cool and maybe an...

My suggestion is not to go into more convincing over the phone/email and to keep that line of communication more cheerful. Fly over to see her without expectations of having more, go see her to have fun and have a good time with her. Enjoy each other company, show her that you can be with her...

Hey Mono :) I've never been to a sex party/swingers event (might do it, to check it out) and I don't know how or if the people are different. But, what you describe above, doesn't sound that different from going to a club. It doesn't happen every time and it depends on the club, so, like Ari...

I adore you, Cricket! :) Some changes in life aren't easy, but we stick with them and endure. I cannot and won't fight all battles that come my way and well, there are different methods of actually fighting. Not every battle can be resolved over night, fast and easy, some battles take time...

I like this post by eklctc. If the relationship is going to burn, well, it might have burnt anyway, even if you weren't living together, maybe at a later date. Who knows, really? So do what feels right. And as you are asking for advice, my only caution would be is that she isn't dependent on...

Hey SkeeterV...your name reminded me of Rita Skeeter from Harry Potter :D haha Did you actually say that your wife is going to spend time with a friend or a boyfriend to your lady of interest? I like the name little Flea, it's super cute!! And no, no one minds...stay strong! :)

Whaaaat? The parents are still commenting on the weight?? Mine do too, and before it used to bug me more, until I sort of reframed it into it meaning they are caring about me and that is one of their ways. Pretty much every time I come visit, they would ask whether I've been lately to yoga or...

I'm sorry to hear that, MBG! *hugs* Nothing can be resolved when drunk, even though it feels that way. I've had a couple of conversations like that with my partner, where he wanted to express what he was feeling. But when drunk, it's pretty much impossible for someone to disengage and see other...

I was afraid before that it would make things go crazy between us, but then she and I started making out, a year ago, and it didn't change the part that I was afraid of. And the thing is, I didn't hide from her that I really liked her. It was pretty obvious. And with respect and honesty, lots of...

You guys are adorable! :)

Not sure if it’s any help, but here I go. My partner and I had a threesome with my really good friend. At that point, she was his friend too. She is my friend from years back. Sex didn’t ruin the friendship for us, neither for me, nor for my partner. The emotional connection, bond, trust that...

Super awesome, RP!!! Excited for all of you :D

it is...I love it! :D

Yes...yes I am :D hehe not far at all!