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something i realized long ago is we cant be resposible for others feelings. they will choose what they choose to feel and they have the right to feel how ever they choose. by "protecting" them from there own feelings by lying is a control issue. and by robbing them of there feelings on something...

things are better?? yea things sound better, not. why do people put themselves through so much agony for something they think is love. of course everybody has their own version of love,but true love has only one definition,and it aint whats going on in this little story. egos run rampant.

Why do I begrudge people who I love pleasure? Why do I envy their bliss? Why am I jealous of their love for others? Why do I try to take power over them and bend them to my will? Why do I blame them for shit that is entirely my responsibility? Why do I try to limit the growth, joy, pleasure...

think about this. some spiritual teachings tell us we are all one. this may imply that there is only one soul. and to become human is to be separated from that wholness of god to experience ,with the interjection of ego,aloneness,individuation,to explore all the complexities that make life what...

thank you for your article post on cheating. you said alot of things that seemed to run parallel with my life somewhat. there is alot of talk about being honest with your partner. which i value above all,infact its nearly an obssession with me,i cant lie lol. but for those whose honesty lacks...

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I just don't think Bo should have ever had kids. He's obviously not a respectable sort. Maybe she's better off on her own until such time as she happens across someone who does love her. Bo doesn't love her or respect her.

Compassion and enhancing. Yes, all of that is fine, but you are fooling yourself if you think it's somebody else's responsibility to make you happy. Happiness only come from within, not from another. The other can be involved in enhancing that happiness, not creating it.

Yes, of course. I won't argue that. If she is staying there for the kids, that's a big mistake. He's not poly. He's a sexual addict, or a NRE addict, or an uncaring selfish pig. I don't know him, I don't know her. No matter how much a person reveals on this website, one will never know the...

It's not his responsibility to make you happy.

love isnt a feeling.you get a feeling when your in love yes and you may feel love,but love in its true essence is not a feeling. we dont get to always chose who we fall in love with it just happens.im not talking about initial lustful connections,im talking about love.true love.

i must say that a great deal of dealing with this is having an open mind,which is obvious that you do,cuz your here,trying to figure it out. it was extremely difficult for me to tell the love of my life that i am poly. she is mono,and she is trying to figure out why. society can dictate alot...

no disagreement there,communication,honesty,which the lack of causes alot of unneeded turmoil. sounds like hubby is just lacking in courage.

this must be hard for you i understand. i think it might be well known that we dont get a choice for whom we fall for,love happens. but we spend our whole lives being conditioned to the lie that we are special,and that there is only one out there in the big world that will help us feel special...

I'm talking about deeper issues than the daily grind of things. I'm talking about the ego and all its little tricks that contribute to our suffering as human beings.

whatever it is or isnt, its continualy evolving, and thats the beauty of it,yes to evolving!

souls are infinite.all the descriptions of what a soulmate is ,is merely a human construct. everyone i have ever loved was a soul mate.

I am in the best relationship I have ever been in. My friend feels the same way. We are in a spiritual partnership, where transcending the issues of the human condition are a large part of us being together. We have just started discussing this poly phenomenon, because I have always been poly...

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