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You would have to take: Total of poly relationships(P) and total # of Mono relationship (M). Define long term as 10 year+ relationship, or whatever and extract. LT/P : LT/M. Compare difference, question answered

I used to not believe in love...now I've transcended that idea and realized that it's not that love doesn't exist, it's just that most people don't really know what love actually is, compared to all the other aspects of relationships dynamics. In any case, I would suggest going over a few...

Your brain controls your erection...if you're not fully there you won't get one. You can either be 1. too excited 2. too scared 3. too weirded out 4. all of the above I mean, dude, I would be too. New girl, and you're like, "Holy shit. I'm going to have sex with another women. WHAT THE FUCK!"...

I'm bi but i'm a pro in any definition. i'm 26...i messed around with my best friend when were like 8 or 10 or something. I thought a few guys were cute in school but never did anything. I even knew a few gay guys but they were way too flamboyant for my taste. In college i learned that guys...

phew, i haven't posted in a while... I'm gonna have to agree with groundedspirit on this one. I'm Poly but i'm in a monogamous relationship at the moment. However i'm still poly in that I believe in loving relationships with multiple people. It's something that is static, it never goes away...

What do you mean "the girlfriend"? Did your boyfriend tell you he's poly? Did you drop the poly bomb? Was it mutual? Also, what do you mean you don't want someone in your life full time? If you don't want a committed relationship, then you should make sure to tell the people you're in...

I don't like this negative tone. You can have casual sex without some deep seated psychology baggage or lack of virtue or something like that. I've had casual sex and had no less respect for the women before or after we were inside each other(lol). Subjective opinions like this should be...

here's how I see it. Look(again) inside yourself and if this is what you want. If it is, have (more) talks with your husband about the polyamory idea, why're your comfortable with, why he feels the way he feels about it. Tell your husband who you're hanging out with out. Assure him that you...

i'm poly. But i'm in a monogamous relationship, and have no issues with it. Though the relationship itself has issues, nothing to do with poly vs. mono

It's not odd to not want it. However, it also isn't as troublesome as some people seem to think it is. I've had several, and they can both be really fun, and really loving. The same exponential feelings you gain from having multiple lovers, is shared in making love with multiple lovers. It's...

dude, butterscotch ripple? Are you a fan of willy wonka rpepper? omg, you just gained like +5 awesome points.

As a bi guym I can pretty much say that the whole, "You can fuck and I do the fucking" is pretty universal. It's way different when I'm getting fucked versus when I'm doing the fucking. Anyone who is versatile knows what I'm talking about. Respect should be taken when you are the controller...

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I appreciate you making this blog, immaterial. Some things you said about co-dependency hit home, as I've recently moved my gf, who got over a long-term relationship, as well. Also, though I agree with Mono that sexual expression is individually defined, it isn't subjectively understood. It's...

I pretty much want cuddlez from everyone I love, or have feelings for. It makes me sad because this is not the case. Sometimes when I connect with what people write on here I feel like if they were near me i would totally give them a hug. And not a whimpy hug, but a caring full hug attached...

just a quick addition compromise is necessary in certain situations. Like all aspects of life, and relationships, everything is basically situational

i'm in las vegas...I have little hope. Everyone here is either a serial monogamous, a mormon, a part of some orthodox religious section, or just really conservative. I'm pretty convinced funny, smart, and attractive poly men and women don't actually exist around me(j/k). I suppose opening...

I'm relatively new to this particular side of relationships...but here's something I've learned. My g/f is very hard headed. She presents double standards out the ying-yang, and not even on purpose, i think it's just subconscious. As someone who is also very strong-willed and hard-headed, i...

welcome! if you want to talk to someone someone actually living in las vegas let me know :)