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I don't do break-ups in email, text or phone calls. Easier to do in person then he can see how angry I am. I am a strong person. Once I make up my mind, I stick to it. I was willing to do anything and everything for this man, but what do I get in return? Nothing really, an occasional sex...

Thanks! Hugs to you all! Yeah, I have a bad habit of doing what others want, but never anything for me. I was raised that way. It's time to look out for me and get what I want.

Thanks, guys! I really appreciate all the comments. So I am not doing anything wrong, but allowing him to do this to me? Well, it ends the moment I see him next. This is not how I wanted to be treated, but I thought it was how people treated each other. I never really had a truly loving...

Max says I can see others, but there has to be love involved. It can't be friends with benefits, or fuckbuddies, or whatever people call it nowadays. I have not seen him now for a week. Who knows when I will see him again? I went to his place for couple days. On the second day, he took off...

How do you post a profile pic on here?

I am really inexperienced in this poly thingy. Yes, I was with a married man for a long time, but we were together all the time till he called it quits. I haven't had that many men in my life. I can count on one hand the men that were in my life. Max is the second one I have ever loved. The...

LMFAO Sorry, I had a good laugh at that. It was probably not to be meant as funny. So what do I love about this guy? Hmmmm so many things. Everything from looks, personality, to attitude, humor. Just everything. He is what I been looking for. What is it about him that is so great? Well, let's...

Yeah, it was totally shitty.

LMFAO. No I don't expect him to be texting me every 5 mins. He has enough texting going on with his others. LOL. Plus we don't text each other unless he is telling me he is on his way here or made it home. When I met him, all I knew was he was married. He did not tell me he was seeing others...

I didnt come on here to discuss my sex life. Sex is beautiful thing and I love it. (I'm just not getting enough.) I came here to find out how one allows the one you totally love to go off with another and do the same thing he does to you. When I'm with him, it's all wonderful. He makes me feel...

*sigh* How do I make myself more clear? He is the one that says when, where and how for everything we do, like a boss. The only thing he don't tell me how to do is my job at work, as we both do the same thing, and when we work it's strictly professional. Yes, he is also the master in the...

Only reason I say he is the master is cuz he is the one that makes the call on where to meet and when, blah blah blah. He is the one that is married and I am the single girl waiting for him. (Waiting is TORTURE for me.) Plus he is the master in the bedroom stuff too. But you didn't need to know...

He is the Master. I am the slave. He has now agreed to just see who it is, and then leave the phone alone if it's not immediate family, i.e., his wife or kids. I do not want him to have the control over who I pick as fuckbuddies. I can't see the issue with having another person without the...

Apparently she is the one that got him to do this poly thingy. I was just gonna go find some other guy to keep me happy in the bedroom department. But Max says I not allowed to have fuckbuddies. I gotta love the dude first. Well, I explained to him I have no other love to give, as my heart has...

I looked for that "poly lessons learned" thread and couldn't find it. I ran outta time. *sigh* I'm just gonna let it all slide and see how I feel. Last night pissed me off, though. Someone kept messaging his damn cell phone and he wouldn't tell me who it was. So I assumed it was his other...

Tried to upload pics but it wont let me....I will try again later.

Thanks, Redpepper. I will ask him more questions. But I think all my questions are starting to frustrate him. We did speak a little last night and he mostly treated it like nothing was wrong. I got frustrated and logged off as he was only replying every 10 or 15 minutes. He is on his way into...

He already told me that he would not see me each time he is in town, as he has to keep others happy. I pretty much only get to see him when we work together, which is not often, and not enough for me to keep me happy. In the beginning, it was constant, every other day. Now I haven't seen him in...

His wife does know. I have spoken to her. I haven't met her in person yet. That is happening on Monday. I have no idea if he's brought anyone home or if his wife met them. I just don't know how to handle the situation. I really don't want to know when he is with others. I would really hate...

Max did not inform me in the beginning that he was polyamorous; he told me he was in an "open relationship" with his wife. Then he told me after I told him I was in love with him that he has other girlfriends too, and wants me to be one. I forgot to mention this in the previous post. But now I...