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  1. Indref

    Recreational Nudity

    I know it's silly, I really do. It would just be a little background hum of discomfort, being so open around people. I think I'd get over it. Here's an honest question; what happens if you are a fellow, and you happen to get a little.. overexcited? Does that even happen? Inquiring minds would...
  2. Indref

    Recreational Nudity

    Clothes bother me. Being naked just feels right. I spend every moment I can naked at home, and even indulge at a few friends places. Never been to a c/o place though. To be brutally honest, I'd be self-concious!
  3. Indref

    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Please let me know how that pans out!
  4. Indref

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    Hey, best of luck! You won't need it, though. It looks like you have chosen some especially awesome Aussies to rock with. Can you take me to Oz with you? I haven't been back there in 4 years!
  5. Indref

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    Ullo darl! Yesm it does seem that you find the best things in life when you aren't looking! Currently in Ottawa, Canada, though I was raised 20 years in Sydney. Love will make you do things like move to a frozen wasteland. :p
  6. Indref

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    Well Light on that! That would be a just plain lovely place to live, where people realise that who you love and who you make love to is really all about you, and that/those people, and there is nothing else to it! Oh well, I guess it's a dream.
  7. Indref

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    Thanks to everyone for the welcomes! Not a bad reception at all, I'm feeling warm and fuzzy already! :D Are you sure about that? Most of the people I hang with think poly is 'wow, ok then, not against that but I could NEVER do it myself'. Hence my joining here, to find people who will, and may...
  8. Indref

    Trying to find partners on dating sites

    I was about to post this exact question. I have a profile on PoF and OKC. So far, OKC has been the more successful, with the whole question system, and the fact that the profile settings allow for the flexibility. So far, I've met and moved on from one relationship started on OKC, and PoF has...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    My girl's man has two adorable kids, and a third he sees once every two weeks, the whole divorce-visitation thing. The three sweethearts have easily taken my girl on as a parent, and just a few weeks ago she was referred to as 'second Mummy,' which is of course painfully cute. You cannot hide...
  10. Indref

    A small Hurdle...leapt right over.....

    I've seen various posts on this unfolding story, and it's incredibly uplifting to follow. I wish the whole lot of you the best in immigration, understanding and love. Moving from country to country is tough, I should know, but it can be done! I look forward to hearing more!
  11. Indref

    How "out" are you?

    I'm out with my parents and siblings, but that's cheating. They live on the other side of the planet, and to be honest, I don't talk with them so much. Shameful, I know, but it's a habit I've had for a long time. Same with my siblings. As for my girl's parents, well we came out to them rather...
  12. Indref

    Long Term Poly Relationship Goals?

    Wow, I think I'm really going to like it on this forum, with threads like this to poke my grey matter. I guess I'll take this a step at a time. I guess I do have a structure in mind. The idea of a V most appeals to me. My girl has a man she's mad about him. They share something that I find...
  13. Indref

    What is love?

    Deep friendship is that, if you lost it you would cry. Deep love is that, if you lost it you would die. I don't know. I really think that the best thing about love is that you cannot define it. You can only describe its experience. Love is what you make it, for yourself, and those you share...
  14. Indref

    Hullo, I'm a newbie! =D

    G'day all, Name's Indref, you can call me Indy. I was trudging around the web and was looking for a way to step out a bit; find people with similar interests and all that. I fell onto this place, thought I'd give it a try! I guess you could call me new to poly. My girl and I have been open...
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