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A friend of mine recently posted something to summarize his definitions of primary/secondary/tertiary in polyamorous relationships. I know most of you don't practice hierarchical poly, but for those who do, I was curious to discuss. It was: Imagine we've been in a relationship for a year then...

This is a thread where I'm just asking for a little support and sympathy. It's my pity party. My boyfriend just broke up with me. And my husband is at his new girlfriend's place tonight for the first time. I'm really trying not to fall apart - I've got the kids tonight of course, so I don't...

I have a question for you all - it's not really a poly question, but it pertains to privacy, which does come up in polyamory a lot, so maybe this is ok? My boyfriend and I just had a huge fight. I am a fetish performer, live and videos, and writer of erotica among other things. I use the same...

So, I just got knocked for a loop. Morp and I met online in March. We started talking every day July 1, started dating July 16. We “officially” got in a relationship on September 7. So this is a really really new relationship. A week ago he was contacted by an ex girlfriend. I'll call her...

So, I am really really terrible at time management. I have a job that caters to this lack - as long as I get my clients taken care of the boss really doesn't care what time of day or night I do it - and this is fortunate, because I've been fired for being late before, so this nonschedule reduces...

To be brief: I have a crush on a man, let's call him Falcon; we talked about it, he's dating a woman who he's been talking about poly with, and he has some freedom to play under specific circumstances (that involve public performance scenes - yes, we're both in the bdsm community) but they...

So... I posted a while ago about sort of falling into a relationship with a woman (Juliette) who was looking for something casual and fun and while my ideal would be something more serious (a triad with Guy and myself and another), I realized I really did like her and it could be fun. We...

Has anyone compiled a list of links or summary of the various laws on bigamy and adultery etc in the various states, either here or elsewhere? I've gotten interested after reading that in Ohio, marrying someone else, while married, or COHABITING with someone else while married, is a misdemeanor...

So, I posted a little about myself on the intro forum, and now am jumping into asking advice. I usually peruse these type boards for a long time, and lurk, and rarely post, but I've been in a jittery tension for a few days now about the current situation, and have little patience for passive...

Hello - quick summary - I'm Eslynne, I've envisioned a poly triad as my ultimate relationship goal since I was in grade school (one man and one woman plus me), but managed a series of mostly monoamorous relationships with boys with hardly a break (a few months or less. usually less) between...