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    How to Develop a New Relationship?

    Well I've had exes who cheated and had more than one abusive relationship. This lead to my relationship with my primary. He knew I didn't like the idea of him seeing other people, but made it relaly clear he was still ok with me seeing other men (I offered not to, I don't have any issues with...
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    Is a diagnosable mental illness a red flag for you?

    Not really. My primary has depression and anxiety issues and I had to push him to see a DR, but he's doing better all the time and it doesn't make me love him less. If anything it's nice to know WHY he's in a mood.
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    Dating

    I've honestly never looked for poly people. i hit on people I find attractive and am upfront about my relationship status. I also used a dating site to meet my secondary. Searching for poly people never occurred to me.
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    How to Develop a New Relationship?

    He is doing well. He had previously asked about seeing other people but I told him I'm not ready for that. I myself offered to wait until I was, and simply be monogamous for a while but he insisted I see other people if it makes me happy and he seems ok with the new guy, they get along well.
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    This is the case with my primary. We have sex and I am willing to have sex whenever he likes, but he knows my other partner is more skilled at getting me off and that I have more sex with him (we switch off every other night, primary is good to go once a night, secondary can recover faster so...
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    How to Develop a New Relationship?

    Yeah I guess I just feel bad because I feel like my new guy might see himself as less important to me because I'm not as close to him yet. I'm never sure of how to handle little things, and this all pretty new to me. I also sometimes over think things and worry for no reason.
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    Poly...ish?

    Since this is from my primary boyfriend... I feel like i should say something. I started out dating him as a secondary, and was actually cheating on my ex who put me through a lot and was (I'm about certain) cheating on me. It was awful and I couldn't handle the drama. So when I met my primary...
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    How to Develop a New Relationship?

    So I recently acquired a second boyfriend. We were having casual sex for a while, but I found myself liking him more and more and decided I wanted to date him or stop seeing him. He hadn't been interested in dating me at first and was nervous about me having a bf already and not wanting him to...
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    Hello! Nice to meet you!

    I am a 20 year old college girl. My primary boyfriend M (25) has been with me for a year and a few months, both as my boyfriend and as my Master in a BDSM relationship. He used to be my secondary bf but I broke up with my old fiance to be with him. He allows me to see other people, so I recently...
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