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I started practicing poly a few years ago with my husband, because it was important to him. I learned not only to accept it, but also to enjoy it. I've been involved in a loving but "secondary" relationship for about two years now, and separated from my husband for about 18 months. The two...

I had planned to go camping with my lover's girlfriend, and a mutual friend of ours to a group camping event. Not a poly camp, but a recreational club with chapters in different towns. We're not really "out" and most of our friends, including the one we were going camping with, just assume...

I would really like to turn off the option that sends me email from this forum. I enjoy checking in and reading every once in a while, but I don't need any email reminders that someone has posted after me cluttering up my box. Is there a way to turn them off? Would someone share it with me...

I've been lurking a while, and I know I posted back when I was first exploring polyamory with my husband. That didn't work so well, and when things fell apart, I just didn't have the energy to be here, and I wasn't sure it was really for me anyway. But. I have a lover, that I kept up when my...

My BF gave me a key to his house the other day. It was so unexpected... I drove him and his GF home after a dinner out, and stopped in for just a few minutes. He said "I have an idea!" and held up a key for his GF to see. She thought it was a replacement key for her daughter, who has lost...

One of the most amazing things that has come of opening up the boundaries of my relationship with my husband is a surprise friendship with OM He's the friend of a friend, and was sent to comfort me when I needed someone and had no-one to call. He's apparently crushed on me for years! I only...

Given that polyfidelity is the goal, what are the steps you might take to introduce new relationships?

How do I start? My husband (HB) had an affair, and in the aftermath, asked me to consider polyamory. I agreed to open our relationship up to the possibility of polyfidelity. We tried for a bit to make it work (it was complicated!) with his gf, but there was too much hurt there, and none of us...

I was reading here last week, and followed a link... I'm not sure now where to. The part I was hoping to look through again was a list of reasons why a primary couple may have rules, and what they are looking to protect by using them. Can anyone help me find that again?