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What is compromising in a poly relationship to you? What are the limits? where you won't compromise?

So, after whining here a lot about why I can't come straight forward to my bf, I did it anyway. It was hardest thing to do, and very emotional, depressing and all that. But he said he will try to understand me, it will take time. I even showed him some stuff to read about poly, he didn't like...

I feel like I am flooding the forum sometimes with my vents.. But I really like the replies.. it keeps me from going crazy really. Replies here helped me a lot, I can now speak more directly of what I want and less beat around the bush.. But still, I feel stuck. I know only time can tell, but...

I've been reading here a lot, sometimes posting but mostly reading trying to find answers for many questions.. I always thought that it is possible to love more than one person. I never thought in depth about it nor discussed it with anyone since there was no actual need.. And now when thing...

My polyamoric "relationship" is not working quite well, this puts me in such stress and neverending anxiety, but I don't want to give up! I'm getting married to my bf in 2 months, sometimes in a rage/serious anxiety attack i think "do I even need this??" but after giving it some thoughts, I am...

So, after finally having this conversation with my fiance, who was very shocked.. For now we agreed that he won't get pissed off hen I go to hang out with her and that she can come more often an even stay here to sleep (and he will sleep in another room or something) For now this is the best I...

I started a thread in the blog section, although I did get some feedback there I'd like to post it here as well since here all the talking really happen. This is my post if anyone is interested.. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=21637 But if you don't feel like reading I will sum...

I have a boyfriend of five and a half years and we are to be marries soon. Pretty much since the beginning of our relationships we had...sex buddies? women mostly (one transsexual and one man for him lately one once each..) girls are for me mainly, bdsm stuff with different people etc... Last...

Hello everyone! I have so many things to say about me and the polyamory subject that I don't know here to start. But since it it my first post, I better not rite too much not to bore you :) About a year ago I didn't even know polyamory existed (although have some friends ho practiced it..) I...