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  1. DevotedGeek

    Dating and money

    Before opening up our marriage, my wife and I used to co-mingle all of our money and do everything from the same financial pot. But about a year after becoming poly, we decided to establish individual monthly budgets as follows: We use a shared budget for family essentials, e.g. food (from...
  2. DevotedGeek

    Compersion: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    That's a good point. I've certainly felt compersion, so I know it's real. But I get along great with my wife's metamour, and we all have a policy of being open with each other when we're feeling bad or have unmet needs. We've helped each other through rough times, look out for each other, and...
  3. DevotedGeek

    Hello, from our poly "vee" family in L.A.

    Thank you for the warm welcome. We've been a vee for about two years now, not living together yet, but that's only temporary due to logistics. Once we get jobs/schooling/planets to align, we'll be one big happy family under a single roof. I really look forward to that day. In the meantime, we do...
  4. DevotedGeek

    Hello, from our poly "vee" family in L.A.

    Hello. I'm in an established and committed poly "vee" family in Southern California. In other words, there's three of us (me, my wife, and her OSO) and we all get along great together, one big family unit. I came from seriously mono roots, and my wife and I were married over 15 years before...
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