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By "ultimatum" talk, I'm trying to understand how to articulate what I need, and have it be understood that it's what I <need>. I don't want it to be a soft "if you could," but an understanding that it is something I firmly need in a relationship right now. So, I'm asking more for suggestions...

Re-negotiating is on the table, but.. I think the black/white re-negotiate or not issue has taken off in the comments. I <know> we need to re-negotiate, but I was hoping for some perspective on <how>, or where it seemed the real issue was. Suggestions? Any read on this, that this is just a...

To reiterate one of my questions, considering what was agreed, "checking in" that she won't do something (though potentially paranoid as it was), was not an infringement of her freedom, but maintaining the agreement?

Re-negotiation? I guess that's part of my question. Does this situation mean it's time <already> to re-negotiate? Considering the agreement we made, when I say, "Please promise me nothing will happen," and she responds with "I feel unfree to be asked that," is this her negating the agreement?

Hi all, I'm new to poly in many ways. I'm in a 9-month relationship with someone who IDed as poly before we met. She has seen several other people while we have dated and I have seen none. So far, this has been fine, because for the most part, I wanted to take the time to really understand if I...