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Update - Had the Conversation! Thank you all again for all your thoughts and advice. I have an update. Last night was date night and I did, indeed, find Jean in a good mood, talkative, relaxed, and once we got home, we were catching up on Survivor for this season and just talking about...

Good Advice I don't think it's just about fucking two women at once for him, in fact he has probably done that. In his younger days he worked as a bouncer at a strip club, and he's dated models, etc. so I feel very sure he has had opportunity for all that. And he's told me he's into freaky sex...

I Never Thought About That..... That's true, he is in close proximity and that could be the reason for the attraction. We spend alot of time together, know each other very well, etc. so it is logical that he is the object of my affection. It's certainly going to be a disaster if the three of us...

Need To Talk About It I guess what strikes me about what all of you have said and advised is that it's not weird and unnatural to want to be with two people at once. I think you just talk about it and see if you can happen upon a solution that works for everyone. We all three truly love one...

Thank You Red Pepper I think the response from Red Pepper, who has actually lived through a similar situation, is very good and offers me alot of insights. Annabelle was also helpful, there are ways to raise the discussion in a non-threatening way, but mainly go slow and ALWAYS respect the...

Great suggestion I like this idea......great idea. Tonight is date night for Jean and I, so maybe the opportunity will present itself. If I ply her with a few beers it can't hurt, lol! That way it is just a discussion, no need to be defensive, etc. and I can get a feeling for what she thinks...

Interesting Propositions You are right, BU, that I should NOT talk to Danny first. I actually realized that myself last night when I was talking to him on the phone. Jean has been sick, and he was asking about her, how she was, etc (of course she was working so he couldn't call her himself) and...

Nycindie - GREAT insight!!! Thanks for so patiently talking with me about this and offering your insights. You know, I think you are right about the V structure - I cannot imagine Jean with any man, because she is a lifelong lesbian, shes never had sex with a man and says she never wants to...

Great Info Thanks so much for the help.....since this is my first time on, I am still mastering what to do, etc. I will definately search past threads. In answer to some of Black Unicorns questions - I would actually consider myself straight, but I happened to experiment one time with a woman...

I need some advice from you seasoned pros. I have been in a lesbian relationship with the same woman for 14 years. She has always been gay, I have never been with a woman prior to this relationship, but I have been married to a man before. The past 2-3 years, I have been craving the attention...