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Thanks Annabel! It is true, and part of the reason I was exploring the poly idea (for myself, instead of just being part of their dynamic). I think if I had someone else to focus some of my energy on I would put less pressure on our relationship.. I will update as things change, I appreciate...

Hi, Annabel. :) No, I haven't. I was working up to it when we blew up around Christmas. I did see other people while we were broken up, one of whom would be interested in continuing things, I think. He has some complications of his own right now, so we are on hold, no matter what happens here...

Little update... Hi all, I can't believe it has been 4 months since I last checked in on here. Time flies... I thought I would post a little update, for those that might be interested. As I had suspected when all of this was happening, Sam and I ended up breaking things off. Whereas before I...

I love the creepiness of X-files:-) I have too many favs to mention here.. And don't want to drag your thread off topic any more than I already have!

Haha Scott- between TNG and XFiles (well I'm not going to lie, South Park and the Tudors) I pretty much geek out every night:) Helo- how dare you. :p

I love TNG, am currently watching them again on Netflix:) Original Star Wars is the best, the newer ones are awful. Except I do love me some Ewan McGregor. Awesome thread Scott!

Haha- I am stealing Dazed and Confused! Perfect;) Singles North & South Into The Wild... ;) South Park- Bigger, Longer and Cut! ( I know it's Uncut, I know..)

Don't worry Anne, you do not sound too harsh, and I appreciate your insight. I have always had a hard time asking for what I want/need-- not just in love! I'm working on it. I was a psych major for a reason. :) In the beginning, I know Naomi read everything, but as time has passed, I am not...

Oh, and I forgot to mention-- Naomi has access to all the communication between me and Sam-- email, Skype, IMs, texts. While, of course, I do not have access to either of their conversations. If I want something to remain between us, I have to ask him to delete it. I know the intention is for...

Hi, Anne. Thanks so much for your feedback. It is a complicated mess I have gotten myself into, for sure. Yes, this has been a sticking point for us for awhile. Of course, in the beginning, I heard from him all of the time, multiple times a day. (NRE, I think, is the term everyone uses on...

Sparklepop, thank you so much. You have some wonderful questions and suggestions! I haven't figured out the "quote" on here yet. My laptop croaked and I am trying to do this on my iPad. So I apologize for the clunkiness of my reply. But I would enjoy some more feedback, if you all are willing...

Hi, Octovus. I agree with you. I do not see how he can have an objection to me seeing someone else. But I don't want him to "freak out," for lack of a better term! I am planning on having a conversation with him about it before I do anything. I feel like he gets the best of the two worlds right...

Hi W2BE, Thank you for you response. I had been reading your story on here (prior to seeing your post). Let me start by saying I am so sorry for what you have gone through. None of us (me, Sam or Naomi) have had any experience with polyamory, so this has all been trial by fire, for sure. But...

Thank you, Anne, for your response. I like the idea/example that you provided. At times, I almost feel like the message I am getting is "You'd better be friends with her, or she will not allow this to continue"! So, I tend to give in to whatever they want to do. Nothing sexual; all public...

Hi All, I am new here, but have been reading your posts for a while now-- research! It's too overwhelming for me to go into the long story, so I decided to start with the short story and question. I have been dating a married man. Sam, for almost two years, with his wife's knowledge and...

Thanks Kevin- I have actually read quite a bit before I posted, and you are very wise:) I have seen a lot of the advice you have posted, and appreciate it. Thank you for your note. I am trying to decide which questions to ask first!

Hello all, I am new to this forum (well I have been reading for awhile, recently registered), and to this concept:-) I have been dating a married man (with his wife's knowledge) for almost 2 years. We have had some ups and downs, so I was doing some online research and came across this forum. I...