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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    5:17 p.m., Tuesday the 20th Tonight is a Barn Hunt practice for Eddie; Snowbunny is gone doing that. Rumor has it that Brother-Husband will get takeout for me from McDonald's; possibly he may get pizza for himself. I've had a few energy drinks today, but otherwise I am fasting and I'm super...
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    Anna Xx

    I'm glad to hear that some good came out of that conversation. Maybe he is trying to stay on Space Cadet's good side for the sake of the kids, and his home life is eating up all of his energy. After the kids are old enough to move out, things might change quite a bit. In the meantime, there does...
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    Poly quad - unusual moral conundrum (one of the 4 is mid-divorce, a mutual friend let something slip not knowing I'm part of the group)

    Hi Rickmanger, I guess my vote is to go ahead and tell Samantha what the friend told you. But also explain to Samantha the moral conundrum that you are in, and ask her to keep it under wraps until she would have found out anyway. You are close to Kayla, and that puts you one step closer to...
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    First Mono/Poly Relationship with a Double-Vee

    In a movie, when something suspenseful happens, it's always followed by something traumatic. Were it not so, the movie's suspensefulness would lose its punch. You will be surprised to find that your poly-related suspense in real life is followed by ... well, nothing happens. Nothing traumatic...
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    Anna Xx

    It sounds like you and Winter have a strong, rich relationship, not the kind of thing either of you would want to sacrifice. It must be confusing to hear his recent words, his words of not wanting him to be as important to you as he is. It sounds like he is saying the words that Space Cadet...
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    Anna Xx

    Anna, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I can't tell how much of Winter's hurtful words are said because Space Cadet is pushing him into it, and how much of it is his own ideas. Either way, it's far more hurtful than what you deserve, I don't think you have done anything wrong. You just...
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    Not sure why I'm here

    Greetings Gettoknowme, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Don't be nervous, you are among friends here; most of us have a lot of experience, and can give you advice. I recommend for you to post in Poly Relationships Corner, it is the board where you will get the...
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    Hoping for community like Polymatchmaker use to have

    Greetings tdh, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. I used to participate in the Polymatchmaker forums. Back in the good old days. Then for awhile we had Polyamorous Percolations, but that has gone the way of the dodo. Now I think Polyamory.com is your best bet for a...
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    Toxic Monogamy Culture

    Good point tdh, interdependence is the ideal of polyamory, and is the next step after independence (which, in turn, is the next step after codependency). Also, the normalization of jealousy, as an indicator of love, is widespread in Western society.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:35 p.m., Sunday the 18th The picture-taking went well, it didn't rain on us and it wasn't too cold. The photographer wore a mask, and we tried not to get too close to her. She was nice, we would probably come back to her in the future. After the picture-taking session, we went and ate at Don...
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    New member from SW Michigan

    Yeah, the winters are rough.
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    Anna Xx

    You write very eloquently Anna, I get four main things from your two new posts: You miss Winter's physical presence, very much. You are worried about the outcome of the coming election. Covid-19 is very isolating for you. Things like Tex's recent silence have increased the isolation. Of...
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    New member from SW Michigan

    I miss autumn in Michigan. 😌
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    First Mono/Poly Relationship with a Double-Vee

    Hi DP, The questions you ask should be centered around how (or if) her feelings for *you* are changing ... e.g.: How does Ashley make you feel so far? What's the same for you? What's different? How do you feel about me? What's the same about how you feel about me? What's different? Her...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    12:23 p.m., Saturday the 17th We had pasta with veggie meatballs for dinner last night. Then BH and I watched AHS S5E2 (Hotel). We had watched Episode One on Tuesday the 6th, if I remember right. Today, I am somewhat more stressed-out than normal, I could speculate all day about the possible...
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    New member from SW Michigan

    I lived in Michigan from 1985 to 2006, so quite awhile. I may end up moving back there, it depends on what my two companions want to do. As for the Kraken, I don't think they're playing til next year, like maybe it gives them time to prepare. It's a strange hockey season, with no live spectators...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:21 p.m., Friday the 16th After SB gets home from work today, she will take me to get my hair cut. Then tomorrow, the three of us will go get our pictures taken (the appointment is at 6:00 p.m.). That's all I have to tell you for the moment, BH and I might watch something tonight but we'll...
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    New member from SW Michigan

    Greetings Skaterplus3, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. It sounds like you have had some experience in poly, if you have any lingering questions let us know, also others may come to you for advice and counsel. My metamour is a huge hockey fan and is pumped about...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:24 p.m., Thursday the 15th SB made some kind of Korean soup for us last night, but turns out, it didn't cook long enough, so we had this and that other things instead. SB and I had a little of the soup as well, and I guess we'll have it again tonight. Sigh, I'm not very excited about that...
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    Anna Xx

    You have many challenges you're working against, long distance is one of them. Another one is that Space Cadet won't let you call Winter, so you have to text. Another one is that she is making you feel like you're cheating on her with Winter. Finally, there is the fact that she won't let you...
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