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    New relationship.. shes pregnant

    I dont mean to come off as disrespectful to my partners. Or crazy. I have said many times that I know I am looking too far down the line. But as an anxious, sometimes manic person, this is the way that I think -- I knit-pick and worry about every possible future outcome, because I don't want to...
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    New relationship.. shes pregnant

    MeeraReed, thats is a really good point. I suppose when i think about it, i know i'm just a really clingy person and I worry I will have separation anxiety. I know it sounds silly, but thats how i've always been with relationships. When Mr. J used to drop me off at home when we first started...
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    New relationship.. shes pregnant

    AlwaysGrowing, thank you for your words about your experience! They really have made me think about how beautiful living separately can be. Maybe the time apart is needed, to focus energies better. I am so happy to hear that this is working for you for so long, you all are so lucky indeed! <3
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    New relationship.. shes pregnant

    Hi! I am coming here while I process some information and what has been happening with life and hopefully some different view points and advice if any. I am in a situation with a woman, Dee. (If she ever gets on this site she will probably instantly know it's me making this post btw, if so...
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    I outed myself publicly as poly!!!

    Thank you all for your kind words! <3 Things have been really great so far with new girl, Dee. She's been messaging me non-stop and she's so sweet, she tries SO HARD to make conversation with me, actually asks about my interests with genuine desire to know. I am only hoping that I can keep up...
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    I outed myself publicly as poly!!!

    I never thought that I would do a coming out, I always kind of felt like it was on a need-to-know basis. My hub has always been a lot more vocal about it, but i think that was part of the problem -- he was vocal and i wasnt, which gave this weird misconception to a lot of people we were around...
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    I outed myself publicly as poly!!!

    Friends... I am over the moon right now! I just want to share a little story here. -- My hubs and I have been poly for about 2 years, but we never really get luck in landing people. To be clear, we are each looking for separate V's... I am looking for a gf for me. He is looking for a gf for...
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    Bunni's Blog - Bi and Poly Girl

    Hi friends! My name is Bunni. Not irl, though I'd like it to be. I am 26, female and bi. I am married to a male, Mr. J (yes, I do have a "Daddy" complex for him that he doesn't know too deeply of lol). Mr. J. is 28 and we have 2 daughters together, ages 2 and 5. Mr. J is straight. He is a...
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    CO poly

    Hi all, I am looking to make some poly friends in CO -- I'm located in Aurora, 10 minutes from Denver. I am 26 bi and with a long-term partner. We have kids. Have been striking out with women and I've been really sad about it. My real-life friends (I only have 2 friends) are too busy for me...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    I really like that you mention this AlwaysGrowing, because it feels like the initial response to her here was to damn her (lol), but through-out yesterday she was messaging me kind of spotty but much more frequently. She even sent me a little meme about plants (I love plants) which I thought was...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    I have! :( Not much luck there, I had a LOT of couples reaching out to me and asking me to be their unicorn, even though I made my intentions very clear on my profile (but you know, people don't read anything other than "bi" these days..). Same with Tinder. I wish they had a poly-only Tinder...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    So true :( We are talking a teensy bit today but it feels like it's heading same direction -- she's going to ghost me again and so-on. For someone that doesn't have two kids like I do, she sure seems too "busy".. Its hard because I try to be understanding of people's situations but as...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    Thank you for the kind words, you are right. I knew it came with the game, it's just the first time it really happens to me and it felt like it was going so well. At least now that I have broken my rejection-cherry, the next ones will be easier, right? :p
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    Colorado Girl

    Hi kmccormic, hope you are well! Though we were initially looking separately, my husband and I are open to the possibility of adding a third if you are still searching for that couple of yours, I know this was posted a bit back. We are in Denver, CO. I'd be happy to chat with you if you'd like...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    For what it is worth, she did reply. She says she's been busy with school and work. But at this point I'm depressed now and don't even know what to think of this anymore or of what to do.
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    I am definitely starting to think you are right :( She didn't message me either yesterday. I have caved! I shot off a last message. I do know that she's taking 6 classes right now online and she just started work again this past Wed after a brief break, so she does technically have a lot to do...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    I know :( I am just so horrible at messaging and picking up on things through text... I fired off one last message today. She was silent yesterday as well, so that might mean all I need to know, but I caved. She is usually asleep at this time but wakes up here and there, so I'll see how it goes...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    Update again: I'm starting to think that I perceived more to be there between myself and the girl I mention... I'm not sure where we are at. So the day I told her about everything, it seemed fine. We flirted most of the night by message and she was replying really quickly all night despite...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    Hey guys, I wanted to post an update. You all were right, it definitely was something I needed to do before meeting with her face to face and that I needed to do asap. So I did it yesterday! I used a bit of what you all said to say to her, and sent it on off. :eek: She was actually really...
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    How do you tell someone you're interested in that you're poly?

    Hi guys! Looking for advice. I'm a bi female with a male long-term partner that I share kids with. We are both poly but new to it. We are each looking to date someone separately -- particularly, he is looking for an exclusive girlfriend. I am looking for an exclusive (different) girlfriend for...
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