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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    Hi there, Just something to watch out for: for someone who's really of a monogamous bent, and having had all the monogamous conditioning all her life, your wife may be feeling demoted with the whole "I'd be happy to see you with someone else" thing. There's a role in her life that's being...
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    Not Dead Yet!

    So sorry, Opal... I adopt senior pets too, and I feel you. It's still super hard to lose them. 💔
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Having issues adding photos... when I try to add one to a post (or as its own post), either via computer or mobile, it looks like it uploads it 100%, then just doesn't add it. On mobile, I get an error, "Oops, we ran into some problems." Halp?
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    YouAreHere is... where? (Or, "This Road Map Still Sucks...") - Blog, Part II

    Welp, I went purple. :D A friend of mine works for Supercuts corporate and was running some color classes, so I figured, "What the hell?" Especially for free! Double win! She says she'll keep me on her list for future classes. So... I was cool with my natural salt-n-pepper ('s here, and we're...
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Huh... okay. Good to know - thanks!
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Ok, when I click on the thread title, I get the beginning of the thread, and when I click on the last reply, I get the last reply. I *did* realize that the little bell/notification icon will take you to the first unread message, though, so it's just me learning the new interface.
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    I may be missing something, but is there a way to look at latest unread posts, rather than the latest post?
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    It's all good! Thanks! :)
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Or does that show up after I'm off moderation?
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Huh. Nope, I don't have that option. Is there a setting somewhere?
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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    Looks nice! I'm not seeing the option to flag posts as spam, though... is that hiding somewhere?
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    YouAreHere is... where? (Or, "This Road Map Still Sucks...") - Blog, Part II

    I logged in today, and... SURPRISE! New forum! Looks nice, and I find the trophy thing hilarious. Still getting used to things, and not really sure how to flag posts as spam anymore, but I'll ask that in a different thread. Work is hellish right now... getting through some software testing that...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Glad things are going well with MisterMoonbeam, and I'm glad you've got some level of closure with PunkRock. Ugh, though. How are the new kitties doing? :)
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    That wall is GORGEOUS! Nice work!
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    YouAreHere is... where? (Or, "This Road Map Still Sucks...") - Blog, Part II

    Aw, thanks Kevin! The COVID hobbies have really helped as well, since whatever low-grade anxiety I still have is helped by making things (I have this need to "do something" and feel guilty when I don't feel like I'm being productive). Plus, it's FUN productivity! :) Never thought I'd see a...
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    YouAreHere is... where? (Or, "This Road Map Still Sucks...") - Blog, Part II

    Wow... Good grief. Way to start a "new" blog thread and then never use it. So... it's been a while. The 2017 guy didn't work out. We had about 5 dates and he wasn't keen on the poly thing, so we ended it. Good kisser, though. Lol. I found it especially ironic when one of his arguments against...
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    Trying to process feelz

    This one rubs me the wrong way. You are both parents and partners, and it's a *good* thing to discuss these plans with each other, and you have your own (non-arbitrary) reasons for not being fond of that particular plan. Does she expect to meet the kids and not have *them* mention you as well?
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    The Notebook of JaneQSmythe

    Hugs, Jane. I'm sorry things ended this way. <3
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    Irony Is Dead

    Again, I haven't finished reading the whole thread, but be careful about this assumption. I was friends with Chops for a long time, and NRE bit me hard. Just an anecdote, but long friendships don't mean you're immune.
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    Irony Is Dead

    Still haven't gone through the whole thread, but just wanted to comment a bit... You'd be surprised how many people think about themselves in the same way. Hopefully, by middle age, most people also realize that other people in the dating pool are *real* people. You're a real person, not a...
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