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  1. BirdbutnotaPenguin

    First time in a while feeling replaceable

    My poly world has been going smoothly now for a couple months, and because I live in a high-digital nomad area, ive had rather short partnerships- but still have remained very close with everyone once they've left/ moved away. About a month ago I met B, and it was great! He knew I was poly...
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    Why cant I fall for anyone who lives near me

    Recently I moved to Thailand, and due to various things, I am no longer with Sir or Lion- who were both LDR back in the states. I started seeing a coworker, but things got complicated, so we slowed it down and are focusing on friendship and work. And then Beast just strolled into my life...
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    New Country new partner

    I recently moved to Thailand to be a teacher, and im absolutely loving it. For the summer I was teaching Preschool, but for the rest of the year I teach chemistry and physics. I became really good friends with the other high school science teacher, and she introduced me to another teacher about...
  4. BirdbutnotaPenguin

    Been a while

    Last time I posted Lion and I were having some issues because of his breakup with his other partner. When I went to go see him I felt really ignored, and felt less-than. We talked about me finding a play partner in my city to keep my occupied while he needed space. That didn't last very long...
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    Not getting my needs met

    I am in two LDR, and I am currently visiting Lion for the weekend and its going a little rough (an not in the fun way). Hes been going through a breakup for the past couple weeks, and as a result a big part of our relationship has become about trying to support him through this. However, I...
  6. BirdbutnotaPenguin

    Here to seek support and find non-judgment

    Hello! Call me Bird. I am currently in two open serious relationships, so open-polyamory is how we like to label it. I am a female and both my partners are male, although my sexuality is fluid. Partner 1 will be nicknamed Sir, and Partner 2 is Lion. Both relationships have strong BDSM influences...
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    How to comfort a partner after they've split with their other partner

    I currently have 2 partners, both long distance. And one of my partners recently just split with his long time girlfriend. I find I am unsure of how to comfort him. Ive never been in this position before. If I lived closer (not on the other side of the country), I would show him physical...
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