Search results

  1. I

    Roadblock

    ‘The road goes on forever and the party never ends...’ It’s 5 am and I’m a little punchy... been up since 4 trying to figure this one out so I thought I’d reach out to old friends. Can someone shed some insight so I can get some sleep... Yet another teary discussion last night with my...
  2. I

    Your thoughts on condom boundary.

    Question: *Is 'required' condom usage a reasonable request/boundary for oso's by ones primary? Background : My primary girlfriend, 'L' (50) and I (52) have known each other for 3 years *are in a long distance *relationship (she lives in Texas and I live in Florida). *We see each other about...
  3. I

    Double standard, revisited...

    Does anybody else have difficulty with double standards? Being the way I am...I don't understand why I have trouble feeling comfortable/totally accepting if my significant others are the same way I am... I think I'm having hypothetical double standard issues. Im trying to place myself in my...
  4. I

    Format question

    When I preview (or post) a thread I wrote, each sentance starts and ends with an asteric. HOW DO I STOP THIS. I'm using an iPhone 3G... I know, it's an antique... Although it didn't happen here..
  5. I

    How can I be "less"?

    Ok... I'm stuck. I have gone back and forth , round and round. I could really use a different perspective on how to accomplish getting past a seemingly obvious impass in a relationship. I need help acceiving fluidity. *....in the dynamics of the relationship, not as in fluid bonding.... just to...
  6. I

    Moreness

    Oops, meant to spell that MORENESS... Hello again, I was asked by my SO, Rubyslippers, to seek y'alls thoughts on this, as I'm in unfamiliar waters.... again. Navigational aids would be appreciated so I don’t end upon the rocks. (Like my two marriages did...) I’ve always 'jumped' right into...
  7. I

    Double standard

    I have sought advice from these threads before and hope someone can get through to me. I could really use some help here. Either help or a good hard kick in the arse... I would prefer the help though because I have been doing a lot of self arse kicking and it doesn’t seem to be doing any...
  8. I

    How do you tell your partner you want to be polly?

    I am in a "V" poly relationship with my so and with a longtime friend that became friends and more, then even more (meaning love feelings.... happened). Everything was very good for the most part except my friend has a boyfriend (S) who does not know about me. I am divorced because I was...
Top