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    Disentanglement

    Several months back I participated in a thread in which the couple had opened up a couple yrs prior but the wife had more or less remained mono or hadn’t really clicked with anyone. And now ( around the time of the husband writing the thread) she went a little crazy and in her ideal world would...
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    Tribute to Hef

    We lost a pioneer and an unofficial poly forefather today at the ripe old age of 91. Wouldn't surprise me if he had a blow out from the use of viagra. A ledgenary figure both on and off the court I'm sure that how he would have wanted to go. God bless and we thank you and salute you...
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    Poly forefathers/mothers

    I saw this the other day .. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2319182/Society-seductress-slept-bridesmaids-An-erotic-poem-lay-hidden-95-years-casts-scandalous-new-light-love-life-novelist-Vita-Sackville-West-Here-grandson-unlocks-family-secrets-.html ......and thought WOW similar...
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    IT's SOURGIRL's BIRTHDAY TODAY

    Happy birthday Waldorf :D........or are you Statler I never remember
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    Rejecting the label

    I ran across this article today and it seem to touch on several topics that get discussed here quite frequently. http://boldlygo.co/?p=205 ....Time management, veto power, abuse, enlightenment, poly superiority, appropriation, etc. Does the author have some valid points? ....do these...
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    Older women who shave down there and descibe their sex lives in a movie title

    Thought might be fun to crush three threads in one....just to see what shakes out. :D I put up Liza Minnelli.... American gigolo
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    Poly Funerals

    Anyone ever been to or heard of a funeral in which one of partner was poly? or openly poly. That situation would make for a interesting conversation or 2....hierarchy could rear it head, picking caskets, receiving line issues, clergy issues, obituary, who's going to get up and...
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    When does poly get the blame?

    I've read on several threads in which the relationship(s) collapse don't blame poly...or the problem wasn't poly it was bad communications, or the lies and dishonesty. In my own situation people have said similar things and I wouldn't argue it at all but it seems like when it works it gets...
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    Old lady perfume smell...

    Over the past few months I've had a few meetings with my estranged wife and I noticed on the second meeting that she smelled ...... like an old lady. Typically in the past she wore rather expensive perfume ....it seemed expensive to me anyway.....you could only purchase it at big department...
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    new wrinkle

    My current situation has changed.... my wife who I'm separated from who lives in another city wants desperately to reenter my life...."wants to dedicate the rest of her life making it up to me and the kids" She chance to meet and spend time repair ... The wrinkle ....I'm dating a couple other...
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    Restless Heart snydrome:cause or effect?

    If you been here for any length of time you see the same pattern or story. I myself have that exact same story. After a number of years ( ) fill in the blank in my case 15 yrs married 17-18 total .....a spouse says I think I'm poly ...I have these feelings for these other people and I LOVE...
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    Do Poly business people see any practical relate-able expericence

    Yesterday had a conversation with a young guy wanting me to become partners in a business venture. My mind went to what would be everyone's responsibilities, time and focus. Once down that road I saw some similarity to a poly partnership in respect to time and focus and attention. How...
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    What does a mono husband do about his daughter's discovery of her mothers poly?

    I guess I to would be considered a struggling mono for now. I've posted some questions and made comments on other threads so my story is around in here. @Sage- I'm not sure if you and I have directly communicated or not forgive me if we have. How long have you been in this type of...
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    Question: In poly-mono relationships....

    Do the poly members of a poly mono relationship find comfort in and like the fact that their partner or partners are mono? Or would it be much easier if they (the mono's ) where also poly with multi-partner relationships? There has been talk about the specialness of being the one an only...
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    Most beautiful Dates?

    In honor of Valentines Days people could recount their most treasured dating moments. I was writing on another thread and accidentally trip on a very fond memory. Who knows it may help set the mood. Happy V day. And those of you who are in V that goes double....
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    sex and its status

    hi , just thought of another question. In the mono world the intimate act of sex was or has sacred status. In the poly world that sacred status is given to furniture, places, rooms, sexual positions or acts, shower stalls and even shoes. "You can wear my partner so to speak but I draw...
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    primary status rejected

    Hi folks, had a interesting discussion last night. I think she was trying to be supportive by saying I was her primary and blah, blah. At which point I said " what if I don't want to be the primary" I think she said I want you as my primary. I said in poly isn't everything negotiable why...
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    FNG with questions

    hello I'm just another FNG with roughly 1000 questions. Back story is married 15 yrs 2 kids, house, dog, etc... about 7-8 months I was reluctantly pushed into this lifestyle. It seems I was sold one thing and I really have'nt realized the benefits yet. Like I said I have lots of...
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