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  1. rubyslippers

    Poly on purpose.

    yeee hah! have at it, Freetime!
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    The Onion

    Keep postin' these links...
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    thanks for trolley idea...

    thanks for trolley idea...
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    I "get" Mono's take on life...and BornEmpathin Virgo, it is what I can't seem to explain fully...

    I "get" Mono's take on life...and BornEmpathin Virgo, it is what I can't seem to explain fully to anyone... often I will "know" what someone is about to say, before they say it....will "know" there's a car in my blind spot even though all signs are to the contrary... used to be friends said I...
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    anneintherain's tag line says it well....A bit odd to post here as a "visitor" but it embodies...

    anneintherain's tag line says it well....A bit odd to post here as a "visitor" but it embodies so much of the outlook I've had seemingly forever.... "Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have." Thanks Anne
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    Poly Women Respond

    everything or nothing being everything to someone is...a huge responsibility. ...and can leave one feeling, unjustly, like a failure, if your partner is NOT "happy"...
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    Poly Women Respond

    social conditioning NY C...this is so true....as is the reverse...when a woman begins to feel the sun shining on her freedom to be who she is....maybe poly, mono or "omni" (thank you redpepper for that great term!) a social conditioning response may kick in within HER subconscious...that says...
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    Codependence and drama

    living with... I'm beginning to understand more clearly what it means to take responsibility for my own happiness and keep myself centered without maintenance from someone else. This is good for me, and it allows me to offer my partners what they need without selfishly shoving their needs...
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    How can I be "less"?

    friendship taken slowly meeting or knowing an individual, whether in person or at a distance, and intuiting something deeper can occur...is how i move forward with a relationship. however deep it may develop or with what amount of "connectivity" FOR ME this works... ps have known IG for 17...
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    How can I be "less"?

    what comes most naturally what comes most naturally to IG, is "being with" others...couples...he said recently. Most Naturally...and he has vowed to himself, and i applaud him for this, to live without denying this part of himself, which he needs and which in previous lives, he has promised...
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    Codependence and drama

    open up at the risk of sounding snarky... chill, DoctorBones. Open up. If necessary refrain from checking this thread until in the company of a tall shotglass of Jamesons and the quiet of your mind. The cultivation of resilience will help you survive... as will the folks in this forum. Give...
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    "The number one thing that damages my self esteem is other people not having good self esteem and trying to decrease mine by defaming me..." Man this is true true true! well put
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    How can I be "less"?

    "sport fuckery!" what a great, descriptive term "sport fuckery" is... i see NOTHING derogatory about it and in fact am adding that to my inner vocabulaty of sexuality...thank you Sagency. When a swinger starts setting up appointments a couple hours apart when swinging through (pardon...
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    peace just peace. Boob gone...bad mix
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    hey man... hey man...is that boob picture too much?
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    Don't worry, honey, I'm buying a new chainsaw and taking up American football... when you get the chainsaw, Echo has good ads...but Stihl has the most torque, the longest-lasting chains, and the best overall reliability, which is why most firetrucks carry them... and...
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    How can I be "less"?

    mysteries I can live with mysteries...in fact most reveal themselves in time. I have what has been called Oriental patience... Acceptance of yourself is key to accepting others... Be as you are you are beautiful "as is"
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    paintaway! go on, River, paint your toes! pick a color to match the bright, flowing skirt you will wear... manicure...pedicure...pawdicure as my dogs do in the morning...all good for the soul
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    are you kidding? do you really paint your toes crazy colors too?
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