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    what is "in the closet" ?

    this isn't an agreeable topic, but it bugs me regardless. for those who would consider themselves some kind of poly (polyamory) the definition is so vague it almost lacks definition. -a possibly intimate relationship (maybe not) -with more than one other person -that may or may not have...
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    Aspects of Poly

    how many different aspects of relationships are there ? some people are fine with zero partners, some NEED lots (i'm guessing 'poly-saturated is something they will never experience) # of partners ... 0+ closeness (casual to life-commitment) closeness 2 (meeting occasionally/infrequently, need...
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    serial monogamy and polyamory

    suddenly an odd thought and question, wondering what others think. some of us are born to be mono (these people are going to only want one person they are exclusive to) some of us are born to be poly (we know who we are :) and there is the serial monogamist who goes from one relationship to...
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    what is polyamory?

    this is kinda sticking in my head more and more. there are degrees a couple are willing to open there otherwise monogamous relationship. *monogamy* -you have only one other partner in your life your commited to in all aspects of intimacy and a deep connection for your relationship *swingers*...
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    the crazy feelings people have.

    i've never understood lots of things, ... jealousy for one, ... maybe that puts me at a disadvantage because i don't know what it's like, i don't know how hard it is for other people to deal with, i just don't know what the deal is. i view it as one of the many things that "your responsible for...
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    figuring it out

    issues i have when i don't know what's bugging me, but something is bugging me and i just don't know what it is, i just can't put my finger on it. i find i can get both feet in my mouth and clearly down to my knees if i can figure out what's bugging me, it's like a road opened up and said...
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    Flear here

    you can learn a lot in a year. looking for aquarium information to do what the hobby has otherwise said is "impossible" yet that's exactly what i'm researching there and having remarkable success. a tank i can ignore for weeks or months at a time and still have a thriving tank, ... may not be...
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