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    Broken and cynical

    A lot of you know my story. For those of you who don't, we can touch on that later. But I came upon a realization over the last couple of weeks that I'm just not the same person anymore. Things have changed for the foreseeable future, and not in a way I would classify as better. We've been to a...
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    I think I owe some of you an apology

    After over a year of heartache & turmoil, as well as a general lack of understanding of the poly lifestyle. I have to say that I kind of get it now. I know that I've been very critical of polyamory, and as much as I tried not to show disrespect for all of the poly folk on this site, I can see...
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    Why do these people keep coming out of the woodwork?

    It never fails... Just when I seem to be feeling better about leaving certain people/events in the past, others seem to try & weasel their way back in. Last summer, when my wife & I were at our lowest point, which resulted in her severing contact with a couple people in her past, another one of...
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    I can't believe I'm considering this

    Let me first start off by recognizing the fact that my ideals do not fit in with those of most people here. I am adamantly, and un-apologetically monogamous, and I have zero interest in going the route of opening our marriage on a physical, as well as emotional/romantic basis. My wife knows...
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    Having too much trouble letting go of the past

    Some of you know from past discussions that I'm a staunch monogamist, and simply cannot understand polyamory. My wife came out as poly to me in June, and ever since, it's brought our marriage to within inches of being over. She hadn't slept with anyone (which I believe), but did become...
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    I just can't seem to accept it.

    No disrespect to the poly folks out there, but try as I might, I just don't understand it. Let me be clear, I don't pass judgement on it as being "wrong", provided that everyone involved is fully aware, consenting, and has their feelings taken into concern. But in my case, this is not something...
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    Monogamist looking for help

    Hi everyone. I'n new here and I recognize that my point of view isn't, necessarily, going to be the most popular. I also know that many of you are going to see my situation as "insignificant" in the grand scheme of things. But rest assured that this is a very real, and difficult situation for...
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