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    Checking out others while out with a SO

    I know this has been talked about before, but I can't find it for the life of me! I was talking to someone I recently started dating (as in we made it official about 2 days ago... haha), and it came up that Keith had mentioned that I have gotten frustrated with him in the past for checking out...
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    "Tell me something unique about yourself"

    You know those games or random conversation starters that people always use? Well, one that I always disliked was the whole "tell me/the group something that makes you unique." I'm not exceptionally good at anything, so my default was always that I'd never been on an airplane. For 21 years this...
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    First poly-related issue...

    So, Keith has been chatting with this woman (T) for a few months... She doesn't live in the country, and neither of them ever have any plans to move from their country of origin, so they both know (in theory) that it's not going to be anything serious but they really seem to like each other and...
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    What "type" does your SO go for?

    I know there has been talk in the past of people's SO's pursuing people who are "too similar" to the poster that it feels threatening or "so different" from the poster that she wonders what it is that the SO even sees in her. My husband hasn't gotten too far in a relationship yet, but he tends...
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    Portland Polyamory 2nd & 4th Friday Meetups

    The group is for general discussion, random socializing, and of course problems and questions are welcome if you want some information or advice. Anyone who id's as poly, poly-curious, poly-friendly, or just plain friendly is welcome! We meet at the Lucky Lab on Hawthorne on the 2nd and 4th...
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    Portland Polyamory Meetup Information!

    For all of you who are from the PDX-area, I thought I would share the information on the meetup that I attend in case you're interested... The group is for general discussion, random socializing, and of course problems and questions are welcome if you want some information or advice. Anyone who...
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    "The Christian Marriage"

    Not sure if this is really the correct place to post this since the topic at hand doesn't strictly have to do with polyamory, but it is about spirituality so I didn't know where else to put it! I see a lot of people comment on having been in and taught the "Christian Marriage" and it being a...
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    Indianapolis area poly events?

    Hey, there! I was just wondering if anyone here knows of any poly groups/events in the Indy area! My husband in particular is VERY interested in trying to find a group of polyfolk to mingle with. We have always been big fans of finding friends with the same interests that we have, and having a...
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    I have this awful habit of dwelling way too much on one situation instead of just going with it and seeing what happens. I over-think things CONSTANTLY. Luckily, my husband is very supportive and will listen to my rants until something triggers a decision/attitude that I am satisfied with. The...
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    Helloooo!! :)

    Hey, there! I am very new to the idea of poly... I am married to my high school sweetheart - I am 22, he is 24, we've been married for a year and a half-ish, together for almost 8 years. 4 years ago, we started swinging. About 4 months ago, I brought up the idea of poly to my husband. He...
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    Swinging relationship turns poly?

    I have acknowledged the fact that I am/could be poly for quite a while. The situation had never arisen where it actually affected my life, though. I'd never met the right people, I have only recently been associating in more liberal circles vs. the religious/conservative crowd that I was brought...
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