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  1. Sugarbooger

    I don't know where to begin

    It's been a while since I've posted. I've really missed everyone. So, back in February I was in a triad with my spouse and another woman. She had differing values about using protection and I ended it with her. He's still friends with her, although they are not romantically involved. My spouse...
  2. Sugarbooger

    About me? How about you?

    Poly female bisexual living in SC Indiana. About me: I love to nerd out about comedy, podcasts, Walking Dead, Dexter, Breaking Bad and True Blood. Old school country music makes my blood flow strong, but I'm down for all kinds of music. I'm a vegan foodie who can cook up a storm. I'm married...
  3. Sugarbooger

    Ack!

    My situation is kind of awkward right now. Getting ready to file for divorce. We still live together and share a bed, no sex. I don't want any with him. We had a "misunderstanding" about 5-6 months ago and things happened that were not agreed to by me. After that, I really never wanted to do it...
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    Sugarbooger checking in

    Hey Y'all, I lurked for a while and posted way back, now I'm back again. Things have changed quite a bit since my last post. I've realized I opened up my marriage for the wrong reasons, the hard way. Without launching a huge post, let's just say me realizing who I was as a queer poly person...
  5. Sugarbooger

    The Fantastic Victory Thread!

    Hey Everyone, This is the spot where everyone and anyone can share how they made small victories in their new relationships. Thanks to many responses to my posts, I decided to set myself up for success and have company over when my spouse is with our lover. A couple of people said they were...
  6. Sugarbooger

    Family rules

    After starting the "Am I out of line?" thread, I was wondering about other poly families and what they have as rules when it comes to being ill and kids being ill. I'm pretty sure everything has been resolved, I just want to know what is reasonable and what isn't. For example, kids being sick...
  7. Sugarbooger

    Am I out of line?

    Am I out of line thinking the following scenario is selfish? I have worked all day since 5:30 am. I picked the kids up at day care and our daughter is sick with a fever. She just threw up all over the place and I called my spouse at work to ask him if he would reconsider having his sex time...
  8. Sugarbooger

    polys in recovery?

    I'm sure there has to be other members of a 12 step program out there, right? I belong to one and have been sober for almost 19 years. Since sobriety/solvency/abstinence from addiction takes a spiritual component for success, I figured this fit into the spirituality area, or maybe life stories...
  9. Sugarbooger

    First fight/disagreement

    Hell, I don't know how to categorize it. I said something that upset our lover about her not telling a potential lover about me and my spouse. she called it out, I tried to take it as constructive criticism, thought she had been acting a little defensive, and just let it eat my lunch all day. Do...
  10. Sugarbooger

    The Super Awesome Jealousy Thread

    I'm sure there are others, but is there a jealousy thread that is super awesome? Sigh. Does it ever go away? I'm much better about the other two having a night to themselves, but I still feel a little bile rise to the back of my throat. I HATE feeling this way. I had a nightmare where I yelled...
  11. Sugarbooger

    They Call Me Sugarbooger

    Hi. My name is Sugarbooger. My spouse and I are involved with another person, someone who had been my friend for a while. After coming out to her and myself, I've realized that this dynamic fits me, is me. I feel like this all makes sense. Part of me is happy I've finally realized it, but...
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