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    Forum upgraded - report issues in here

    I really like the new forum. It is a very nice upgrade. On my end, I am noticing the pages are loading slowly, but I am wondering if that is on our end and our wifi and/or internet modem needs to be reset.
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    First of all, we are okay. Secondly, while our stores have some bare shelves, things have been pretty orderly here. We try to go as early as we can to get everything we can get in that one trip. Then go back a different day. We have been avoiding watching the news in the last few days. It is...
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    What you listening to Now :

    The Deceased album Surreal Overdose.
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    Our husband thinks there is some misinformation going on, but says it helps to air on the side of caution regardless. He also thinks the way it has been reported has been mishandled and the government is just not making anyone feel at ease, which could also be true. We have tickets for...
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    Netflix series "YouMeHer"

    The 3 of us haven't watched it yet, but plan to. Although he and I weren't exactly a vanilla couple and met our third through a swinging site, but became a closed triad, we are intrigued by the premise of the show and have seen poly friends go through some of the struggles based on what we have...
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    Special Occasions

    When I was a full time musician with touring and recording a lot, it can be difficult. Sometimes even just producing and engineering a band at a local studio is time consuming. Before I met Chris and Amanda, my relationships soured really fast because of it. It sucked I had to miss a lot of...
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    Music And Musicians

    I am a heavy metal drummer, Yes, a woman that plays drums. I come from a non musical family, so I was on my own. I wanted to play drums after I purchased the Venom album Welcome to Hell in 1982. I was already listening to Iron Maiden, Black Sabbath, Motorhead, Praying Mantis and many other heavy...
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    Favorite Quotes

    "There are no limits. You are only limited by however far you want to be limited." - Chuck Schuldiner of the band Death.
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    The heavy metal community always comes together, which is why I am so proud to be a part of the genre as a fan, musician and studio engineer. Every one is always willing to help out as much as they can. No matter if we agree or disagree about various topics related to bands, their albums and the...
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    POLL: Bedsheets and multiple partlerns

    We change sheets every week.
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    I thought everyone would like to know the reunion show went well. Everyone had fun and we raised money to help with his treatment not only from those in attendance, but also from various businesses, especially in the music community that contributed with money and various items to be auctioned...
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    I hope it continues to work out. :) Reuniting with these guys has been awesome. I have missed playing with them and as we have been rehearsing the songs, it is just like how it was when we formed in 1986. I wish he could play with us, for at least 1 or 2 songs but his doctors advised him not...
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    That is awesome. I am glad to hear that. :)
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    I think a lot of that has to do with maturing after all of those years. It happens to all of us. I know I've matured in certain aspects of my life over the years, whether it happened 10 years ago or 30 years ago. I hope it all works out for you. :)
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    First Date

    When we met our third, it was over dinner, which is normally the best way to go when you meet someone new. It doesn't have to be a fancy restaurant that will break your bank account, but it shouldn't be a fast food restaurant either. When we met our third, we had her meet us at a restaurant that...
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    For the first time in almost 20 years, the very first band I was in are reuniting to play a benefit show for one of our former band mates who was recently diagnosed with cancer. It has given me time to not only reflect on our fun times together, but also realize that time is short and we should...
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    What are you drinking right now?

    Me: Vodka/cranberry Her: Jagermeister, then she is moving to some Fireball Him: Rum/Vitaminwater
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    What's your 'number'?

    Currently I’m 51 and love my poly committed life nowadays. In my time of being a full time heavy metal drummer for a little over 30 years, I was known for my sexual antics as well as my drumming. But I was a young woman and wanted to have fun. The number of partners is a lot. Before a show, I...
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    What are you drinking right now?

    It’s a rum night for us.
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    What are you drinking right now?

    Fireball Whiskey. It’s been a rough day. Not in a bad way, but just busy. I needed a little help, he he.